Creative Genealogy – The Story of John Adams and our Family

Posted on May 29, 2024May 29, 2024 by FHadmin

It seems that when people tell their history, especially about people that are no longer living, that the stories become bigger, better, different than they were originally, or in some cases completely manufactured. That said, most of them are based on at least a grain of truth. Thus, they can’t be completely dismissed.

Key Elements

A good genealogy story – not a true one, but a good one that intrigues people and gets them interested in the family – are made of at least one of the following: an illicit affair, ties to Native Americans, being born on a ship to America, the Mayflower, Salem, Capt. John Smith, a rich relative, and/or connections to famous people. Bonus points are given for any story that incorporates multiple key elements into one story.

The problem is that people believe these stories no matter how little data supports their story. One of my family stories with little actual evidence is the case of my family’s alleged ties to President John Adams.

The Story

According to distant cousins, 4^th great grandmother Tabitha, who married the earliest known Passco Peelle (not the earliest Peelle, but the earliest Passco), was the illegitimate daughter of President John Adams. And, some of the family notes say that she was the daughter of both John Adams and his later wife Abigail Smith.

This story was based on family lore and a few notes and letters that were written years after Tabitha’s death that supported the story. Additionally, Passco and Tabitha’s grandson William Peelle’s middle name was Adams, which seemed to support the story.

Schroth-Peele Research

In 2015, Milton N. Schroth, a descendant of Tabitha and Passco through great-grandpa William Johnson Peelle’s sister Rachel, and Horace B. Peele, a longtime Peel/Peele/Peelle researcher and far distant cousin, published the results of their extensive research into Tabitha’s lineage in the Peelle Newsletter. Down load Volume 15 Issue 1 of the Peelle Newsletter to read the results of their investigation.

Their Conclusions

In their research, they examined numerous aspects of this claim, including John Adams’s history with women, ages of people involved, Tabitha’s lack of verifiable history, the handwritten document that listed John Adams as Tabitha’s father, and more. I will not reiterate their entire stated research. However, they found that they could not prove it false and believed that the evidence that did exist supported the claim.

On the other hand, they decided that the claim that his later wife Abigail Smith was Tabitha’s mother was not true despite that being part of the notes they had. This was based on her age and health. So, they believed part of the story. That is not unreasonable given that stories that are passed down are usually partially true, but rarely completely true.

Questioning The Conclusions

At the time, I corresponded with both the authors, whom I had previously discussed family history, stating my questions and concerns. I was assured that if I had seen all the research they had done that I would not question the outcome. That answer was not satisfactory to me and I continued to question this claim.

Since their research has been widely circulated and this connection to President John Adams is now all over ancestry.com, I feel that it is appropriate to share questions about the story. I am not saying that we are or aren’t related to John Adams. I just have a lot more questions before I claim him as an ancestor.

My Specific Questions

Location, Location, Location

The first question that came to mind was that Passco lived in North Carolina. Thus, it is assumed that he met Tabitha there. If her biological mother got pregnant by John Adams, it is likely that occurred in the Boston area. So, was the mother sent to family or friends in North Carolina to have the baby? Was there a story of Tabitha’s mother’s “husband” dying (a common cover for a child out of wedlock)? Was Tabitha sent to North Carolina after her birth to be raised by or adopted by a family? Did a well-to-do family pay someone to raise her? Why so far from Boston?

What Is In a Name?

Tabitha’s last name was said to be Dunigan. However, I have never found a record that shows her maiden name. In addition, there are lots of versions of that name. Many spelling options exist at the time of her birth and many people didn’t know how to even spell their own name. Yet, it is unclear if that is supposedly her mother’s name, adoptive parents name, or where the name came from exactly. Additionally, I have found zero proof that her name was Dunigan. Was that name passed down in the family? Did somebody get the name wrong?

Missing Records

One contributing factor was that they could not find a record of Tabitha’s birth or of her parent’s names. Tabitha most likely married around 1775. Thus, most records regarding her birth and parents would likely have been recorded pre-Revolutionary War. It is not at all unusual to encounter a lack of records in that era even for a Quaker.

I saw an article once where I believe it was Tabitha that claimed she did not know her age. The reason why was that the meeting house with the records had burnt. This is very possible and could definitely explain a lack of records as numerous Quaker meeting houses (and churches in general) burnt in the early years of our country. Since the Peelle family were Quakers and no record exists of Tabitha and Passco’s marriage or the birth of at least many of their children, it seems very likely that records of the family were lost, which makes the lack of records inconsequential and clearly not an indicator that someone was trying to hide Tabitha’s history.

So, why did anyone assume that missing records equate to supporting the story? Aren’t missing records in genealogy expected? Especially in the 1700s?

Adams Middle Name

Passco and Tabitha’s grandson being named William Adams Peelle would seem to strongly corroborate the story until you realize that another ancestor of mine named Sarah (Adams) Johnson lived in the area and her ancestors were from North Carolina as were the Peelle ancestors. Additionally, there were two other Adams family in Wayne County, Indiana around the time of William’s birth. Couldn’t they have named him Adams after one of these people? Or, couldn’t they have named him after the President without him being Tabitha’s father? After all, people named their kids after presidents all the time.

Additionally, they stated that John Adams and his wife had died by the time William Adams Peelle was born and so there was no worry of a scandal. However, this is incorrect. His wife Abigal had died. However, President Adams did not die for several years after William Adams Peelle was born. Besides, who would have known that the middle name of Adams had any relevance to the person’s grandmother’s father unless someone in the family went around telling the story? So, it would seem that anybody in the family at any time could have been named Adams without starting a scandal.

Tabitha’s Birth

When was Tabitha born? The conclusion that the authors of the research had was about 1755. Others have assumed that as well based on the ages of her children. According to Quaker records, Anna born in 1778 is Tabitha’s daughter. If we assume that Tabitha is the mother of all the known children of Passco, then she was child bearing from 1775 – 1795. Thus, they assumed that she was about 21 when the first child was born in April 1776 and that she was approximately 40 when her last child was born. This is a reasonable assumption for searching for records. However, Tabitha’s exact birth year is very important when determining if John Adams was indeed her father.

Childbearing & Age

If I look at reasonable child bearing years, Tabitha could have been as young as 13 with her first child or as old as 50 with her last child. This places her birth sometime between 1745 and 1762. If we then apply the 1800 census, we find that the oldest female in Passco’s household was marked as 45 and over. Thus, this reduces the interval that Tabitha could have been born to 1745 to 1755.

Passco was born in 1733 (unless there is another generation with the name Passco that we don’t know about), which means that if Tabitha was born in 1755, he was 22 years older than her. However, if she was born in 1745, there was only 12 years difference in age. Since such age differences were not uncommon, does this age difference have any meaning?

What is important is that if Tabitha was born in 1745, John Adams wouldn’t have been her father as he was only 10. He wouldn’t have likely fathered a child until he was 13 or more likely 15. This would mean that for Tabitha to have been his daughter, she would have to have been born between 1748 and 1755 inclusive, but was she?

Who Would Have Known?

The story was shared at least within two family lines that descend from Passco and Tabitha’s son William. It is important to note that they were co-located and were in Indiana, but were far from where Tabitha’s family or people who raised her lived. It is said that Tabitha moved with William’s brother John to Indiana. If so, she would have lived in the same area. So, there would have been an opportunity to learn of Tabitha’s beginnings from her. However, the question in my mind is, “How did she know?”

If adopted or raised by some family, would they really have known the story of Tabitha’s conception? In my experience helping adoptees, my guess would be that they would not have known and if they did, they likely would have kept it a secret or changed the story in some way.

If raised by her mother, her mother would have known and could have shared the information with Tabitha. But, would she had done so?

If Tabitha was born in Massachusetts or somewhere nearby and was sent away as a baby or young child, she couldn’t have possibly known who her parents were. Is it simply a story she made up?

DNA Evidence

Does DNA show a tie to John Adams? Using DNA to prove a connection to John Adams would be challenging. The number of generations required to make a connection and the fact that it is a common name add complexity. In my case, it is even more challenging since I am also related to the Adams that married into the Johnson family. Similarly, I am also related to at least one Smith family, which is also tied to the Johnson family. All of these families came together in Wayne County and Randolph County in Indiana. And, all of them had ties to North Carolina.

I have verified my Adams family line to Chester County, Pennsylvania in 1708. Additionally, I believe the family was in that area at least as early as 1690. My Adams family line appears to be a completely separate family line from President John Adams family. My family appears to have immigrated either to New York or Pennsylvania while John Adams’ family immigrated to Massachusetts.

A major DNA undertaking would likely be required to have any hope of proving this connection.

The Real Story

No matter what people put in their family trees, the real story may never be known. Too bad we can’t go back in time and find out exactly what happened. Until then, it will remain an interesting story, but won’t be listed in my tree as fact.

Image: By Gilbert Stuart – This file was donated to Wikimedia Commons as part of a project by the National Gallery of Art. Please see the Gallery’s Open Access Policy., CC0, https://commons.wikimedia.org/w/index.php?curid=81314356

The Great Name Debate

Posted on May 20, 2024 by FHadmin

Figuring out all the names, nicknames, ordering of names, and initials for a person is one of the great challenges in genealogy. Sometimes the answer is obvious with research and sometimes it isn’t.

The Debate

My Grandmother Dessie May (Thomas) Pellett and her youngest brother “Bud” Thomas always argued about their mother’s real name. Was her real name Sadie Ella or was it Sadie Ellen and Ella was a nickname?

They couldn’t ask her directly since she died due to hemorrhaging and myocarditis related to childbirth. Her baby was stillborn or died within hours of birth. He was the third of nine pregnancies to come to a tragic end. She died two days later.

Dessie was 15, however, at the time of her mother’s death. So, she actually knew her mother and had some opportunity to know her mother’s name. However, Bud was a toddler when his mother died and probably remembered little if anything about his mother. So, his information would have come from their father or other relatives.

The Real Name

Still, according to her delayed birth record and her marriage record, both of them were incorrect. Their mother’s name was Sarah Ellen (Ashby) Thomas. The name Sadie appears in some records, but it appears that most often she was simply referred to as Ella. She had been born August 13, 1884 in Fayette County, Iowa and died November 2, 1918 in the hospital at Fort Scott, Kansas.

Children of James William “Will” and Sarah Ellen “Sadie Ella” Thomas – Front: Bud, Oren, Leland (a.k.a. Leonard and Tom); Back: Dessie, Verdie, Delbert

Life After Ella

Dessie was the oldest child and for the next several years she helped her father, James William “Will” Thomas, raise her younger siblings. I remember her being especially close to her youngest two siblings. “Verdie,” who was actually Verda Leola Thomas was five when their mother died and Theo Melvin “Bud” Thomas was only two at the time of their mother’s death.

Verdie is an obvious nickname for Verda. However, I have no idea how Theo became Bud. He used his initials in most business dealings and Bud the remainder of the time. He was the postmaster at Hiattville; thus, known by many people in the area. Yet, I imagine there were plenty of people in the neighborhood that never had any idea that his real name was Theo.

Theo Confusion

Theo is an obvious nickname for Theodore. However, it seemed that his name was officially Theo with the exception of the Social Security Administration and an article about his marriage to Ida (Louise) Hanson, that stated his name was Theodore. Now, I would believe a social security record over the census and other records. However, his draft registration for WWII lists his official name as Theo. So, which was it?

He went by Bud, his wife used her middle name of Louise, his son James went by Jimmie and his daughter Leola Mae was called Tillie. Again, I have no idea how Leola Mae became Tillie.

In the next generation, all of the children of Jimmie Lee and his wife Sandy, another nickname, had nicknames. One who lived only about a month was nicknamed “Buddy.” Can’t guess where they got that name!

This family sure liked nicknames!

The Business of Western Expansion

Posted on May 14, 2024May 14, 2024 by FHadmin

When we think about people who settled along the trails westward, we often think about the hardships that they encountered. We may wonder if they were traveling west and simply gave up and decided to settle in that location or if the location was their original destination. However, we often don’t consider the business they did catering to . . . or in some cases taking advantage of . . . people moving west. In fact, the westward expansion business was responsible for the establishment of cities like St. Joseph, Missouri, Kansas City, and Denver.

Mary French (Gourley) Ronald

Mary French Gourley (Rod’s great-great-great grandmother) was born February 18, 1803 in Paisley, Renfrewshire, Scotland. It was there that she married Thomas Ronald II on June 6, 1820. As their children became adults, some of them immigrated to the United States, settling in Wisconsin.

In 1856, Thomas, Mary, and their children that remained in Scotland set sail for the United States. They joined their children in Wisconsin. On April 19, 1860, Thomas died. By 1864, Mary’s sons William and John and her daughter Margaret, who had married Arthur Reid Thomson, all made their home in Nebraska. It had become a separate territory in 1854, but would not become a state until 1867.

The Diary

With a majority of her children settled in Nebraska, Mary decided to make the move to Nebraska. On August 24, 1864, Mary, her two youngest children, and her granddaughter Mary Barbara Wallace (daughter of Mary’s daughter Mary and her first husband Joseph Wallace) left Berlin, Wisconsin in a covered wagon headed to eastern Nebraska to Margaret Thomson’s home.

Her daughter Jane, who was 22 at the time, kept a diary of their journey. She noted where they traveled, how long they traveled, the difficulties they encountered, and interesting things they saw along the way. One of the things she mentioned were expenses of their travel and other things they bought.

Tolls

Plank Road

Various people that they met along the way gave the travelers advice on the best way to travel through the local area on the way to their destination. The first that she noted was a gentleman that directed them to save 9 miles traveling through Wisconsin by going to Lodi, Mazomanie(the diary has a different name, but this is the closest sounding town along that portion of the route), Arena, and Prairie du Chien. When they reached the area of Portage, they encountered a plank road that required a toll. It was 1 ½ miles in length and had a toll of 16¢.

Before they reached Prairie Du Chien, they encountered a sign with the wrong mileage to the town. They continued on the route for a few miles learning that it was actually 30 miles to the town instead of 3 miles as was stated on the sign. By following this route, they had already gone 4 to 5 miles out of their way.

River Crossings

The largest toll they had to pay was $1.80 to take a ferry across the Mississippi River. There were tolls for ferries and bridges to cross other rivers, such as, the Missouri River. At the Cedar River, they paid a 60¢ toll to use the bridge to cross the river that she estimated to be about 30 rods wide. However, after they crossed, they learned that they could have forded the river and saved their money.

There were other rivers and streams that they forded. Among them were the Raccoon River and the Des Moines River. Each of them had a toll for using the bridge. However, the rivers were low, allowing the family to cross without the use of the bridge.

To this day, there are bridges that cost to use them IF you are traveling west. However, there is no cost when traveling eastward. Clearly, a leftover system from the days of westward expansion.

Accommodations

Good Nights Sleep

It rained and stormed a lot during their journey. They didn’t always get a good night’s sleep. On many nights, they just attempted to sleep in their wagon. One night they laid under the wagon in the mud when the cover blew off. However, sometimes they visited a house to get out of the rain. One night during a rain storm, a man charged them two bits to sleep on the floor in his filthy house. And, in Cascade, Iowa, they paid to spend the night in an actual hotel.

Of course, worry and concern also cost Jane a good night’s sleep. This was especially true after they met men coming from Idaho that stated that it was very dangerous where they were going. The worry became amplified when they met a Potawatomie Indian while camping and he told them that they should not go to Nebraska. He said that the Indians were going to work together to drive all the white people out. He managed to scare Jane, but not stop the trip.

Rough Map of The Journey from Berlin, WI to Paisley, NE; Background map is from maps.google.com

Livestock

They also had to find accommodations along the way for their cows and oxen. It was not always easy. There were nights when finding good pasture and water for them was quite difficult. On a few nights that meant paying to use pasture land. The night they spent in a hotel, they had to pay for feed for the oxen at 5 cents per head.

Not all the livestock expenses were for accommodations. On two occasions the cows and oxen got into someone’s fields. The first time they damaged the corn field, buckwheat, and cabbage. This cost the family 50¢. The second time, less damage occurred. In addition, only the hired hand was home. So, they gave him some fresh milk. He was from Scotland, like them, and he not only accepted the milk for the damage, but also gave them melons in return.

They met a family along the way, whose horse had been injured. They had been charged $50 for a new horse that was no better than the injured one. Fortunately, the family did not encounter a need for additional oxen during their journey.

Gains & Losses

The family did, however, have other losses. When bathing in the Wisconsin River, Robert lost his hat. They also lost his new boots along the way, Mary’s reader, and a powder flask. Matter of fact, the diary itself was lost, but they went back and recovered it.

One day when Robert was ill, they traveled only a short time before setting up camp. That afternoon while Robert rested, the ladies walked to the top of a high hill. When they returned, the ox had eaten all of their bread and two pounds of crackers. This led to more baking. When possible, they borrowed someone’s kitchen to make biscuits. However, on at least one occasion, Mary made biscuits over an open fire.

When they stopped at the McAlister family’s home, they were treated to biscuits and given a loaf of bread. The family was from Scotland and likely considered them home folk.

Other Expenses

To bake, the family purchased flour multiple times. One time they purchased 50 pounds at $4.50 cwt. Later, they purchased 25 pounds of flour at $4.00 cwt.

It seemed that when they bought flour, they bought matches (10¢). Likely, the need for multiple boxes of matches was all the rain. At times it was too wet to start a fire.

They bought other routine items: soap, candles, powder, and shot. There were other unforeseen expenses as well. For instance, Robert had to replace his hat. They also had to buy a chain because the cattle kept breaking the ropes.

They did gain a little money to help pay for purchases when they sold a pound of butter for 35¢.

Land

Although they weren’t in the market for any land, as they traveled they inquired about the local price of land. They found that land near Dubuque, Iowa was selling for $25 per acre. Near Marengo on the Iowa River, land was going for $10 to $40 per acre depending on the specific property. And, later on they found an area where land would only cost them $15 to $20 per acre.

Arthur Reid and Margaret (Ronald) Thomson

Wrapping Up The Journey

After listening to people giving them directions earlier in their journey, the family was not so quick to follow other’s directions. One person recommended they go to Potosi to Iowa City, and on to Council Bluffs, where they would cross into Nebraska. They decided to ignore that advice. Instead, they went further south and crossed the Missouri River at Nebraska City, which was a thriving city of about 2,000 people. That went well and they continued westward. They stopped at a log house about 20 miles before their destination. The next morning, they pressed onward despite the rain. By nightfall on October 4, 1864, they arrived at the Thomson’s home near Paisley, Nebraska.

Mary would live the rest of her life in the Paisley area. She lived for a time with her son John who was a bachelor. Afterward, she lived in a dugout before having a home built. Her granddaughter Mary Barbara Wallace, who had made the trip from Wisconsin with Mary, stayed with her until she reached age 15. Later, Mary sold her farm to her grandson Arthur T. Thomson and built a small house near her daughter Margaret Thomson’s home. She lived there until the last year of her life, which she spent with her daughter Margaret. She died in 1893 at age 90.

Papers, Papers, And More Papers

Posted on May 7, 2024May 7, 2024 by FHadmin

When you are clearing out a house, you might be inclined to just dump old papers that don’t look like they have been touched for decades. However, before you just dump that box, bag, or drawer of old receipts, newspaper clippings and other papers, take a look at them. You might be surprised what general history, local history, and family history they hold. You might even find yourself fascinated by them.

Preserving Everything

My parents preserved many things, but today’s article takes a look at the “paper” they preserved. Mom was the Newspaper Clipping Queen. She cut out articles about the family, neighbors, the neighborhood, historic events, and more. Meanwhile, neither of them got rid of receipts for key items, memorial cards from funerals, invitations, or announcements. And, they didn’t touch any papers that they inherited. Thus, I have been going through “paper” for years and for every stack I go through, I only inch closer to being done.

This article touches on a few examples of the things they kept, focusing on local and family history.

Births, Marriages, Deaths, and Interesting Stories

My parents had hundreds, if not thousands, of newspaper clippings. If you are related to people in Fort Scott, Drywood Township, or Pawnee Township in Bourbon County, Kansas, Mom just may have cut out an article about your family. The challenge with these clippings, in many cases, is to figure out if the people are related to us or not. This is particularly true of people in mom’s family and the neighborhood where she grew up (Drywood Township), as it seems like most everybody is related in some way. Even after doing genealogy for nearly 30 years, I still haven’t untangled all of the people that lived in that area.

Newspaper articles are wonderful. I enjoy them and they have provided facts or clues when I was researching someone. In some cases, I couldn’t have figured out who someone was without them. But, what I like most about them is that they bring my ancestors and the people they knew to life. For instance, the story in the article from 1946 adds so much to the story of the Pellett family. Like all other families, they were so much more than vital statistics.

Note: Rufus Pellett was not a direct ancestor. However, like all the Pelletts in Bourbon County, he was a relative.

Church Records

Church records among the many papers that were in my parents’ home include membership records, church directories, attendance records, and church bulletins.

My mom’s membership card at what is now the United Methodist Church in Fort Scott is shown. It appears that she was a member at the church in 1955, if I am reading the date correctly. That leads to another fun challenge with all the records – reading the handwriting.

HINT: If you have a paper record and cannot read the handwriting, take a photo and enlarge it on your phone/computing device. Often enlarging it makes it more readable.

Licenses

Hunting & Fishing Licenses

Grandpa Joseph Andrew McCracken’s fishing license tells us that at age 47, he was 5’9” tall, weighed 180 pounds, had blue eyes, and brown hair. If we didn’t know his date of birth, this license would tell us that he was born about 1894. His hunting and driver’s licenses tell us similar information, although for some reason his weight, hair color, and height all seem to be variable from license to license. Still, we get the general idea.

Driver’s License

Grandma Nellie (Peelle) McCracken got a driver’s license in 1931. It is unclear how much it really got used as she much preferred to ride a horse or drive a team of horses than to drive a car. In any case, it is similar to grandpa’s fishing license in that it tells us similar information about her. She was 5’4”, had blue eyes, and light colored hair. A woman, however, never admits her age or weight. She did on the license, but I won’t disclose it here. Her driver’s license also shows her address and gives her signature.

HINT: Licenses and military records are good places to find descriptions of ancestors.

Hardware Receipts

I.E. Morrison

This receipt is especially interesting because it lists both Hiattville and Pawnee as business locations. There never were many that did business in both towns and receipts from them are few and far between. In addition, Ester (McCracken) Fisher, Lydia Peelle, and possibly other family members worked at Morrison’s store.

Williams Hardware

This Williams Hardware receipt was written for Baldwin Barker. It was likely in my parent’s possession because my grandfather was the administrator of Baldwin’s estate. Also included in my parents papers is a newspaper showing a long list of items to be sold at a sale after Baldwin’s death in 1928.

Of note to the family, Baldwin, his wife, and children lived in the house that I grew up in.

Hills Brother Lumber

The interesting thing about this receipt for lumber is that the lumber company was on the plaza in Fort Scott. That area was so very interesting. Although I don’t remember this particular business, I do remember going into businesses on the plaza when I was young.

I do not know why the name is McPheron. That is a total mystery to me. There were people with that name that lived in Bourbon County at one time. I don’t know if this purchase was for someone in that family or if an error was made in the name.”

Banks

Hiattville State Bank

The Hiattville State Bank was formed in 1907 with $10,000 in capital. One of the original stockholders was John Hartnett, who was a first cousin to my great grandmother, Matilda (Jury) Peelle. John was also the first child born in Hiattville.

The document from Hiattville State Bank is intriguing because it states that the bank is crediting the account; however, it has no name or account number on the document.

Farlington State Bank

This bank document was from less than three years after the bank was formed on October 25, 1915 by members of the Martin family. The bank initially had $10,000 in capital, a new brick building, a burglar-proof safe, and a large vault. However, the bank closed July 24, 1924, less than ten years after it was formed. Elmer Poole, cashier at the bank, was sent to jail for accepting deposits when he knew the bank was insolvent. However, he was cleared of embezzling funds.

The document is particularly interesting from a family history perspective because it is signed by Grandpa Joseph Andrew McCracken, his father Andrew Johnson McCracken, and his mother-in-law Matilda Peelle, which is a rare combination of signatures. Also, the interest rate was 8%, which was very common in that era.

Cars

The automobile registration receipts (and there are quite a number of them) tell the story of the vehicles that the family owned over the years.

This example shows that they owned a 1935 Studebaker sedan in 1952. One thing that was generally consistent is that they tended to own older cars. When Dad was 21, he was driving a 1928 Ford Coupe. It was as old as he was.

In 1943, Grandpa Jsoseph Andrew McCracken owned a 1933 Plymouth Sedan. This car had bad tires and Grandpa went to buy a new set. However, before the sale was final the United States entered World War II and the sale of new tires was restricted. So, the family didn’t get a set of new tires until after the war.

Tax Statements

The tax statement shows the real estate property Joe McCracken owned in 1951, including the acreage and tax. What surprised me, but shouldn’t have, was that it had the school district listed on the form. From this tax form, it appears that Rocky Vale ceased to exist, at least ceased to exist as a separate school district, prior to 1951.

So Much More

These records don’t begin to scratch the surface of the many documents that my parents stored for decades. Other types of paper documents they kept include photographs, letters, greeting cards (so many of them), various mortgage and insurance documents, certificates, school records, and legal records.

Among the many receipts are the receipt for the birth of one of Dad’s siblings, the receipt for my mother’s wedding rings, and even for the 1954 Ford tractor.

One of the most interesting is a Jury summons, as it is embossed with a seal. It is far fancier than the postcards I have gotten.

Last, but not least, an old mimeographed copy of a list of heirs for the probate case of Minnie Alameda (McCracken) Munroe, sister to Andrew Johnson McCracken, may have been the most helpful document of all. It contained names that I did not know and led me to find that Lemuel Lawrence McCracken, my great-great grandfather, had been married before he married Louisiana Matteer, my great-great grandmother. I also discovered through that document that Louisiana had also been married prior to their marriage. Thus, one document from decades ago led me to two branches of family.

So, if you wonder how I know so much about family and local history, it is in part due to my parents and the fact that they never threw out “important” papers!

Sources: The 50 year ago clipping is from the Fort Scott Tribune. The one for Kay’s wedding is likely from the same newspaper.

Holy Matrimony

Posted on April 30, 2024 by FHadmin

Today, marriages come in many forms from the brief ceremony at the justice of the peace to elaborate events that go well beyond the ceremony. In the case of my grandmothers, one was married by the probate judge and the other by a member of the clergy. Both came away with a husband and a beautiful record of their marriage.

Courtship and a wedding

Courtship

Originally named Eleanor, my Grandma McCracken hated that name and to my knowledge no documents were ever issued with that name. Thus, she officially became known by her nickname, Nellie. She was a young woman of 18 when she started courting with Joseph Andrew McCracken.

One of the postcards that they sent each other.

The particulars of Nellie and Joe’s first meeting are unknown. Nellie lived in Bourbon County and primarily would have attended events at Rocky Vale, Pawnee or Hiattville. Joe lived in Crawford County with ties to Farlington. However, they didn’t live too many miles apart.

While courting, they attended events together, but also sent postcards back and forth. In October of 1912, Nellie sent Joe a postcard reminding him of a party and making sure that he knew she would be there.

Their courting became all at a distance when Joe went out of state to work in the fields. Based on the letters they wrote to each other, they were very much in love. Read more about their story in the blog The Locket.

The photo was taken about the time they married. The dress shown is likely Nellie’s wedding dress.

Marriage

On February 24, 1914, Probate Judge Russell issued a marriage license to them. Then, at 5 p.m. on March 4, 1914, Rev. E. A. Brown of Pawnee married them at his home. The Reverend’s wife was the witness. It is interesting that Rev. Brown married them as he was a Baptist minister and neither of them were Baptist. Perhaps no Methodist minister was around the area at the time or they were friends with him as he was a young man of about 30 years of age.

Nellie and Joe received the beautiful certificate commemorating their marriage. It is approximately 18″ by 20″.

Married Life

After their marriage Nellie and Joe set up housekeeping at a house four miles south of Hiattville. Nine and a half months later Nellie would give birth to the first of their eleven children.

Nellie and Joe were married 46 years before Joe died of heart issues.

Wedding And a Celebration

Courtship

Dessie was born in Kansas. However, the family lived both in Kansas and Missouri, mostly very close to Garland, Kansas. The exception is during a short interval surrounding 1913 when the family went by covered wagon and moved to Oklahoma. However, they soon returned to Kansas.

Clifford Claney “Cliff” Pellett was in Scott Township in 1900, but was in Drywood Township by 1905. He wasn’t, however, a close neighbor of Dessie.

After Dessie’s mother, Sarah (Ashby) Thomas died in 1918, Dessie, being the oldest, spent the next four and a half years raising her younger siblings. It is unknown how much time she had for courting. In addition, Cliff was serving in WWI between the fall of 1917 and the summer of 1919. So, unless they were writing letters to each other, they definitely weren’t courting during that time.

However, Dessie definitely new Cliff by October 27, 1921 when Dessie hosted a wiener roast at her Uncle John Ashby’s home, as Cliff was among the large guest list. That evening included dancing and old fashioned games for entertainment.

Marriage

Clifford & Dessie (Thomas) Pellett and Their Son Marvin

On Saturday, June 2, 1923, Dessie wore a navy blue canton crepe dress with shadow lace when Cliff and her stood before Judge Crider to exchange their wedding vows. Dessie’s brothers Leland and Delbert were witnesses.

They received the certificate shown above. It is not as large as the one my other grandparents received. Yet, it is still good-size (shown in a 18″ by 20″ frame) and is just as lovely.

They ventured from their home one-half mile south of the Diamond School to Fort Scott on business the following Monday. One might guess that they needed a few things in order to set up housekeeping.

A couple of weeks later, the Clarksburg Country Club (a.k.a. the Clarksburg Club) gave Dessie a wedding shower at their regular meeting. The presents were placed in a deep window and the shade drawn to hide them. Dessie was subject to a rhyming game that led her to the window. Each gift also had rhymes, which she read out loud to the ladies of the club. It was said to be enjoyable by all.

Married Life

Eleven and a half-months later, Dessie gave birth to a son. Unfortunately, he died before or shortly after birth. She would, however, go on to have another son and three daughters.

Dessie and Cliff were married 43 years before Cliff died of heart issues. However, Dessie would tell you that they were married 18 years. The reason being that Cliff was in a VA hospital for the remaining years. Therefore, she didn’t view that they were married since they didn’t live as man and wife during that time.