{"id":12087,"date":"2025-06-20T02:47:44","date_gmt":"2025-06-20T07:47:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/itsallinthesynapse.net\/Family_History\/?p=12087"},"modified":"2025-06-27T00:22:17","modified_gmt":"2025-06-27T05:22:17","slug":"when-you-open-a-can-of-worms","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/itsallinthesynapse.net\/Family_History\/when-you-open-a-can-of-worms\/","title":{"rendered":"When You Open A Can of Worms"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"boldgrid-section\">\n<div class=\"container\">\n<div class=\"row\" style=\"padding-top: 75px; padding-bottom: 75px;\">\n<div class=\"col-lg-12 col-md-12 col-xs-12 col-sm-12\">\n<p class=\"\">This story started as a tribute to a boy, who the McCracken family has placed flowers on his grave for decades despite not being related to him.&nbsp; Along the way, the story got bigger, more complicated with people moving all over the place and using different names on different days of the week, and I found connections to relatives and neighbors.&nbsp; This just proves that you need to be cautious when opening a can of worms because the simplest of stories can lead to a place you never expected.<\/p>\n<h1 class=\"\">The Story<\/h1>\n<p class=\"\">All I ever knew was that my Uncle Dewey wanted flowers to be placed on the grave of Arden Johansen each Decoration Day, which is now called Memorial Day.&nbsp; I knew they were friends, Arden had lived across the road, and that Arden didn\u2019t have family in the area.<\/p>\n<p class=\"\">For years, Jackie, Dewey\u2019s wife, put flowers on the grave.&nbsp; When she was no longer able, my mom, dad, and sister took over.&nbsp; And, for the last three years, I have taken on the job.<\/p>\n<p class=\"\">I was hoping to find out how why Arden died at age 15.&nbsp; I also hoped to learn why his family left and where they went.&nbsp; Well, the story was a bit more complicated than that.<\/p>\n<p class=\"\">&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h1 class=\"\">Introduction to the Johansen Family<\/h1>\n<p class=\"\">In order to understand Arden\u2019s life, it is important to understand a bit about his family history.<\/p>\n<p class=\"\">&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"\">Grandfather Johansen<\/h2>\n<p class=\"\">On November 21, 1832, Arden\u2019s grandfather Peter T. Johansen was born on the island of Zealand near Copenhagen, Denmark.&nbsp; He became a sailor at age 14.&nbsp; He sailed to Norway, Sweden, Iceland, and Australia, where he participated in the Australian gold rush.&nbsp; Finally, he sailed for America.<\/p>\n<p class=\"\">Peter went to Effingham County, Illinois where he married Mary Jane Layton in 1871.&nbsp; He settled down there for much of his adult life.&nbsp; He was the school treasure for 43 years and was a very prominent member of the community.&nbsp; However, one day he pulled up stakes and moved much of his family to Arkansas.&nbsp; As you can see, he was adventurous.&nbsp; Apparently, that was a gene he passed down to at least part of his children of his children.<\/p>\n<p class=\"\">&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"\">The Move To Arkansas<\/h2>\n<p class=\"\">In the fall of 1903, the family moved to Sharp County, Arkansas.&nbsp; Peter stated that the reason he was moving was that in Illinois he could not acquire enough land to leave a sizeable piece to each of his children.&nbsp; Land was both cheaper and more readily available in Arkansas, where he purchased 560 acres.<\/p>\n<p class=\"\">Peter and Mary Jane were joined in Arkansas by their son John (William), daughter Flora Charlotte \u201cLottie,\u201d daughter Mollie, daughter Tillie and son Grover.&nbsp; Their son Layton apparently didn\u2019t have the travel gene or his wife wanted to stay in Illinois.&nbsp; Tillie also didn&#8217;t last long in Arkansas, moving back to Illinois and marrying there.&nbsp; Likewise, William didn&#8217;t stay long.&nbsp; Between 1906 and 1910, William moved to Ford County, Kansas.&nbsp; However, William and his wife Mary, and children did not stay long in this location. Their oldest two Gladys and Seth had been born in Illinois.&nbsp; Then Peter had been born in Arkansas.&nbsp; Now, it was time to go back to Illinois where their next child Lloyd was born in February 1911.<\/p>\n<p class=\"\">&nbsp;<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_12089\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-12089\" style=\"width: 466px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-12089\" src=\"https:\/\/itsallinthesynapse.net\/Family_History\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/Screenshot-2025-06-18-at-10.19.11\u202fPM-601x1024.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"466\" height=\"794\" srcset=\"https:\/\/itsallinthesynapse.net\/Family_History\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/Screenshot-2025-06-18-at-10.19.11\u202fPM-601x1024.png 601w, https:\/\/itsallinthesynapse.net\/Family_History\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/Screenshot-2025-06-18-at-10.19.11\u202fPM-176x300.png 176w, https:\/\/itsallinthesynapse.net\/Family_History\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/Screenshot-2025-06-18-at-10.19.11\u202fPM-768x1310.png 768w, https:\/\/itsallinthesynapse.net\/Family_History\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/Screenshot-2025-06-18-at-10.19.11\u202fPM-901x1536.png 901w, https:\/\/itsallinthesynapse.net\/Family_History\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/Screenshot-2025-06-18-at-10.19.11\u202fPM-250x426.png 250w, https:\/\/itsallinthesynapse.net\/Family_History\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/Screenshot-2025-06-18-at-10.19.11\u202fPM-550x938.png 550w, https:\/\/itsallinthesynapse.net\/Family_History\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/Screenshot-2025-06-18-at-10.19.11\u202fPM-800x1364.png 800w, https:\/\/itsallinthesynapse.net\/Family_History\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/Screenshot-2025-06-18-at-10.19.11\u202fPM-106x180.png 106w, https:\/\/itsallinthesynapse.net\/Family_History\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/Screenshot-2025-06-18-at-10.19.11\u202fPM-293x500.png 293w, https:\/\/itsallinthesynapse.net\/Family_History\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/Screenshot-2025-06-18-at-10.19.11\u202fPM.png 916w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 466px) 100vw, 466px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-12089\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">The property that they were living on when it was foreclosed is the SW 1\/4 of Section 13, which in 1920 was marked as B.E. Perry. That is where the Zimmerman family lived when I was growing up. And, matches the description of where they lived when their son drank coal oil at Baldwin Barker&#8217;s house (B. Barker).<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<h2 class=\"\">Bourbon County<\/h2>\n<p class=\"\">By fall 1912, William and family were in the Hiattville\/Pawnee area in Bourbon County, Kansas.&nbsp; William was making plans to move into Ft. Scott.&nbsp; It was reported that he moved his household goods.&nbsp; However, in April 1913, William was a visitor at Rocky Vale School #78. <em>This is just up the road from where I grew up.<\/em>&nbsp; Either the move wasn\u2019t completed or they didn\u2019t last long in Ft. Scott.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3>Coal Oil<\/h3>\n<p class=\"\">At the end of November, William and Mary left their young son (I assume this was Lloyd) with Mr. and Mrs. Baldwin Barker, who lived a half-mile east of them, while they went to church.&nbsp; <em>This would have been at the house where I grew up.&nbsp; <\/em>Anyway, Mrs. Barker was cleaning with coal oil.&nbsp; She sat a cup of it on the table and the young boy got it and drank some of it.&nbsp; He became ill and Mrs. Barker realized what had happened.&nbsp; She immediately induced vomiting and called for a doctor.&nbsp; Miracle of miracles, he survived unharmed.<\/p>\n<p class=\"\">&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"\">Peter&#8217;s Death<\/h3>\n<p class=\"\">The following spring, William\u2019s father Peter, who had still been living in Arkansas, stayed with William.&nbsp; After Peter died, William and his mother accompanied Peter\u2019s body back to Illinois for burial.&nbsp; His estate was handled in Illinois.&nbsp; An article mentioned that he owned 160 acres of land near Hiattville and other interests.&nbsp; However, it did not call out any land in Arkansas, where he had been living.&nbsp; I don&#8217;t know if he had already distributed that land to his children, he no longer mentioned it, or Hiattville simply made the paper since that is where he died.<\/p>\n<p class=\"\">Peter&#8217;s wife stayed in Illinois for an extended period.&nbsp; The following year she traveled back to Kansas to live.<\/p>\n<p class=\"\">&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"\">Life Goes On<\/h3>\n<p class=\"\">In 1915, William and his wife Mary were still living in Bourbon County with their children Gladys, Seth, Peter, Jesse, and a son whose name appears to be Reward.&nbsp; I believe this is the son that is later listed in records as Lloyd R.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"\">William\u2019s mother Mary Jane was also living in Pawnee Township between two Deesler families.&nbsp; The head of the household appeared to be J.H. Johnson.&nbsp; Note that the name was written for his name and then the name Johansen followed for other members of the household.&nbsp; Thus, I assume that his name was Johnson and that this was not a typo.&nbsp; Other members of the household included Mollie, Caley, Lottie, and a one-boys name which is not decipherable.&nbsp; I assume Caley was Callie, Mary Jane\u2019s youngest son\u2019s wife.&nbsp; Likewise, I am guessing that the one year old was Callie\u2019s son as that matches with his birth year.&nbsp; Additionally, Lottie was married, but her husband was not with the family.<\/p>\n<p class=\"\">Things began changing again in January 1917.&nbsp; Foreclosure proceedings were held for the property where William lived.&nbsp; Several different families, some of which were known to have lived on the property, were listed in the suit.&nbsp; Thus, a variety of issues may have arisen with paperwork or some non-payment.&nbsp; Before 1920, they would move to Nebraska.<\/p>\n<p class=\"\">&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h1 class=\"\">Arden\u2019s Life<\/h1>\n<p class=\"\">Now enter William (Arden) Johansen who was also known as Billie.&nbsp; He was born July 17, 1917.&nbsp; But, where?&nbsp; And, to what parents?&nbsp; Before we can answer that question, let&#8217;s look into Arden&#8217;s life and continue to keep an eye on other members of the Johansen family.<\/p>\n<p class=\"\">&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"\">Rocky Vale<\/h3>\n<p class=\"\">The first mention I found of Arden in records or newspapers was in April 1922 when Arden and his brother Jack visited O&#8217;Ella and Ester McCracken.&nbsp; It was followed by a busy fall.&nbsp; Arden started school at Rocky Vale in September.&nbsp; The featured photo at the top of this article is Rocky Vale students in 1926.&nbsp; O&#8217;Ella, Ester, Dewey, and Howard are in the photo.&nbsp; Plus, two little McCrackens not yet in school.&nbsp; I believe the boy in front with suspenders might be Arden and the boy far in the back could be Jack.&nbsp; <em>If you recognize those two boys as someone else, please let me know.<\/em><\/p>\n<p class=\"\">Then, in October of that year, Arden and Jack went with their Aunt Charlotte &#8220;Lottie&#8221; to Ft. Scott.&nbsp; And, in November, he landed on the sick list. Then, in December, when Arden&#8217;s grandmother Mary Jane Johansen, who suffered from arthritis and didn&#8217;t get around well, fell against a hot stove, Arden came to the rescue.&nbsp; At only five-years-old, he couldn&#8217;t help her directly, but he was able to run outside and find his Aunt Charlotte, who was able to assist his grandmother.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_12092\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-12092\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-12092\" src=\"https:\/\/itsallinthesynapse.net\/Family_History\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/Jack_s_Christmas_Letter-300x176.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"176\" srcset=\"https:\/\/itsallinthesynapse.net\/Family_History\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/Jack_s_Christmas_Letter-300x176.jpg 300w, https:\/\/itsallinthesynapse.net\/Family_History\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/Jack_s_Christmas_Letter-250x146.jpg 250w, https:\/\/itsallinthesynapse.net\/Family_History\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/Jack_s_Christmas_Letter-550x322.jpg 550w, https:\/\/itsallinthesynapse.net\/Family_History\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/Jack_s_Christmas_Letter-307x180.jpg 307w, https:\/\/itsallinthesynapse.net\/Family_History\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/Jack_s_Christmas_Letter-512x300.jpg 512w, https:\/\/itsallinthesynapse.net\/Family_History\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/Jack_s_Christmas_Letter.jpg 606w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-12092\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Jack&#8217;s 1923 Letter to Santa<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p class=\"\">The next year included day to day life with additional visits to other neighborhood families.&nbsp; His brother Jack wrote letter to Santa that year that was printed in a Ft. Scott newspaper.&nbsp; It is much like the ones that children write today except that he didn&#8217;t ask for an iphone or video games.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"\">&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"\">Illnesses &amp; Injuries<\/h3>\n<p class=\"\">In the spring of 1924, Grandma Johansen was not well and was confined to bed.&nbsp; Her son William came from Nebraska to see her and his sister Charlotte.&nbsp; It was believed that William was going to buy a farm east of Pawnee.&nbsp; However, I have not found any indication that the purchase took place.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"\">Just before his birthday, Arden had a significant mishap when he somehow got two large nails stuck in his foot.&nbsp; That keep him in bed for a few days so that the foot could heal.&nbsp; Around Christmas of that year, a newspaper in Illinois reported that two of Grandma Johansen&#8217;s children were traveling to Kansas because their sister had died of pneumonia.&nbsp; I believe this is a misunderstanding because&nbsp; none of their siblings died at that time and the next February it was reported locally that Charlotte was still recovering from pneumonia.<\/p>\n<p class=\"\">&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-12096 alignleft\" src=\"https:\/\/itsallinthesynapse.net\/Family_History\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/Screenshot-2025-06-18-at-10.13.47\u202fPM-1024x665.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"658\" height=\"427\" srcset=\"https:\/\/itsallinthesynapse.net\/Family_History\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/Screenshot-2025-06-18-at-10.13.47\u202fPM-1024x665.png 1024w, https:\/\/itsallinthesynapse.net\/Family_History\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/Screenshot-2025-06-18-at-10.13.47\u202fPM-300x195.png 300w, https:\/\/itsallinthesynapse.net\/Family_History\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/Screenshot-2025-06-18-at-10.13.47\u202fPM-768x498.png 768w, https:\/\/itsallinthesynapse.net\/Family_History\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/Screenshot-2025-06-18-at-10.13.47\u202fPM-1536x997.png 1536w, https:\/\/itsallinthesynapse.net\/Family_History\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/Screenshot-2025-06-18-at-10.13.47\u202fPM-2048x1329.png 2048w, https:\/\/itsallinthesynapse.net\/Family_History\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/Screenshot-2025-06-18-at-10.13.47\u202fPM-250x162.png 250w, https:\/\/itsallinthesynapse.net\/Family_History\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/Screenshot-2025-06-18-at-10.13.47\u202fPM-550x357.png 550w, https:\/\/itsallinthesynapse.net\/Family_History\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/Screenshot-2025-06-18-at-10.13.47\u202fPM-800x519.png 800w, https:\/\/itsallinthesynapse.net\/Family_History\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/Screenshot-2025-06-18-at-10.13.47\u202fPM-277x180.png 277w, https:\/\/itsallinthesynapse.net\/Family_History\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/Screenshot-2025-06-18-at-10.13.47\u202fPM-462x300.png 462w, https:\/\/itsallinthesynapse.net\/Family_History\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/Screenshot-2025-06-18-at-10.13.47\u202fPM-770x500.png 770w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 658px) 100vw, 658px\" \/>Location, Location, Location<\/h3>\n<p class=\"\">In the 1925 state census, Arden and Jack were shown living with their Aunt Charlotte and their grandmother Mary Jane, where I suspect they had been living since at least 1922.&nbsp; They were listed with one household between McCracken family and them.&nbsp; The map shows the property of Roy Cornelius, Charlotte&#8217;s husband.&nbsp; So, Arden did indeed live right across the road from Dewey.<\/p>\n<p class=\"\">In December 1925, Charlotte filed for divorce from her husband, who I had never found to be living with her.&nbsp; She stated that he had abandoned her in Chicago some years earlier.&nbsp; The land she lived on had belonged to her parents.&nbsp; Her husband Leroy (Roy) Cornelius had made a deal with her mother that he would get the land in exchange for taking care of her mother for the remainder of her life.&nbsp; He not only hadn&#8217;t taken care of her mother.&nbsp; He hadn&#8217;t been present in her life for at least five years as the last record I have of them together was when they were renting property in Miami County, Kansas in 1920.&nbsp; Thus, her divorce suit asked for the land to be awarded to her as compensation.&nbsp; She had taken care of herself, her mother, and the land.&nbsp; She was awarded the property.<\/p>\n<p class=\"\">Sometime between the time the divorce was finalized and the end of 1927, Charlotte married Stanley Calvert.&nbsp; They continued to live in the Hiattville\/Pawnee area.&nbsp; In January 1928, Charlotte required surgery and she died a few days later.&nbsp; She was buried at Hiattville Cemetery.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"\">&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"\">Moving Away<\/h2>\n<p class=\"\">Apparently, Stanley continued to care for Arden, Jack, and Grandma Johansen.&nbsp; Later that year, Mary Jane&#8217;s son Layton and her son-in-law John Hanna came and moved Grandma Johansen back to Illinois to be cared for by their families.&nbsp; The next March, Stanley and the boys moved to Waverly, Kansas where Stanley had family.<\/p>\n<p class=\"\">&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"\">Arden&#8217;s Death<\/h2>\n<p class=\"\">On June 29, 1933, Arden died in Waverly, Kansas.&nbsp; The cause of death of the boy who was not yet 16 was typhoid.&nbsp; His body was brought back to Hiattville for burial.&nbsp; He is buried next to his Aunt Charlotte, who helped raise him.&nbsp; It is assumed that his aunt&#8217;s second husband had purchased two plots and used the second one for him.&nbsp; Like in their days of youth, Arden, Billie as Dewey called him, is right across the road from Dewey.&nbsp; The two friends are buried only a few feet apart.<\/p>\n<p class=\"\">&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h1 class=\"\">Arden&#8217;s Parents<\/h1>\n<p class=\"\">Now, lets turn our attention back to the question of who were Arden&#8217;s parents?&nbsp; And, where was he born.&nbsp; We know that he was a grandson of Peter and Mary Jane (Layton) Johansen as there are multiple references to this relationship.&nbsp; We also know that Charlotte was said to have been Arden and Jack&#8217;s aunt.&nbsp; References also indicate that Arden and Jack were brothers.&nbsp; We also know that Jack was born around 1914 and Arden was born in July 1917.&nbsp; Additionally, a couple of references list Jack as Heber or a similar name.&nbsp; I also saw one article that said that they lived with Charlotte after their mother died.&nbsp; However, other articles about her caring for the boys do not mention this piece of information.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"\">For completeness, let&#8217;s consider all of Peter and Mary Jane&#8217;s children that were living at the time that the boys were born.&nbsp; Layton and his wife lived in Illinois the entire time.&nbsp; They never had children and both lived to be over 80.&nbsp; Likewise, Tillie and her husband lived in Illinois.&nbsp; They had one son and whom they raised.&nbsp; Thus, it seems extremely unlikely that they would ship subsequent children off to live with an aunt in another state.&nbsp; Charlotte is a consideration even though they claimed she was an aunt.&nbsp; However, they were not living with her in 1920 and there is no reason that she wouldn&#8217;t have claimed them as her own since she raised them.<\/p>\n<p>Now that we have removed half of the Johansen siblings as possible parents, let&#8217;s consider the other three more likely ones.<\/p>\n<p class=\"\">&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"\">William and His Wife Mary<\/h2>\n<p class=\"\">I considered William and Mary as their parents.&nbsp; They had a son Jesse E., who was about the age of Jack and who also used that nickname.&nbsp; But the questions that immediately came to mind was, &#8220;Why have Jack with them at times, but never Arden? And, why these two of all their children?&#8221;&nbsp; Even if they would have been the youngest two, that would have made more sense.<\/p>\n<p class=\"\">While living in Nebraska, William did come to visit, but it never mentioned that he was visiting his sons.&nbsp; Additionally, Mary did not die young.&nbsp; I looked at that fact over and over with such a common name.&nbsp; However, evidence points to him being married to the same Mary Lane throughout their life while living in at least six states (Illinois, Arkansas, Kansas, Nebraska, Mississippi, and Virginia).&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"\">This possibility although interesting as their son Jesse\/Jack was the right age shows up too much with his parents.&nbsp; He is with them in each census and shows to be consistently living in Lincoln, Nebraska.&nbsp; Thus, I believe they are not his parents.<\/p>\n<p class=\"\">&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"\">Mollie<\/h2>\n<p class=\"\">Mollie it seemed had some type of issue as she shows up at the state hospital at Osawatomie in records from 1920 throughout the rest of her life.&nbsp; I don&#8217;t know the first date that she was there, but it was after 1915 and before 1920.&nbsp; That said, I also found records for a woman with her name and birth year living in Fort Scott in the 1950s.&nbsp; So, perhaps she was in and out of the hospital. Could she have been their mother?&nbsp; This seems possible.&nbsp; Jack could have been the one-year-old boy that is listed in the 1915 state census.&nbsp; However, he is listed after Caley (Callie) and not with Mollie.&nbsp; Additionally, I don&#8217;t know where they would have been in 1920 since they weren&#8217;t with Charlotte and Grandma Johansen.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"\">&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"\">Grover &amp; Callie<\/h2>\n<p class=\"\">The woman Caley (Callie) in the 1915 census with Grandma Johansen would appear to be son Grover&#8217;s wife.&nbsp; I am assuming that the one-year-old boy was her son.&nbsp; In September 1918 when Grover registered for the draft, they were living in Arizona.&nbsp; He was working as a miner at that time.&nbsp; It is possible that she had another son and then she died.&nbsp; Tracing Grover and Callie has been very difficult.&nbsp; This makes me wonder if are the parents.<\/p>\n<p class=\"\"><span style=\"color: #008000;\">UPDATE: I believe I can now conclude that Grover and Callie are his parents.&nbsp; I remembered seeing Arizona somewhere in the records.&nbsp; I dismissed it at the time because I had not found any of the family to have been in Arizona and other records appeared to indicate that they didn&#8217;t know.&nbsp; However, that aligns relatively closely with the draft registration.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"\">&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"\">What it was like for Arden?<\/h2>\n<p class=\"\">I am trying to imagine what life was like for Arden.&nbsp; He may have never known his parents at all.&nbsp; And, if he did, it would have been only when he was very young.&nbsp; He was raised by an aunt, who I imagine loved him as her own.&nbsp; But, still not the same.&nbsp; Then, she died.&nbsp; And, Grandma moved away.&nbsp; He was left with his brother and his aunt&#8217;s husband.&nbsp; Then, the three of them moved away.<\/p>\n<p class=\"\">It must have been even worse for Jack as he would have been a bit older.&nbsp; And, on top of all that Arden went through, he lost his brother, too!<\/p>\n<p class=\"\">&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h1 class=\"\">Afterward &#8211; The Connections<\/h1>\n<p class=\"\">While living around Hiattville\/Pawnee, William was mentioned in the company of C.C. Callow, L.F. Lozier, Mr. Runkle, and Elias Deesler.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"\">&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"\">McCracken<\/h2>\n<p>The first McCracken connection to his associates came through L.F. Lozier.&nbsp;&nbsp; His daughter Fern married Grandpa Joseph Andrew McCracken\u2019s brother Lemuel Lewis \u201cLem\u201d McCracken.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"\">Deesler<\/h2>\n<p class=\"\">I researched the name Deesler, as I knew this family.&nbsp; Well, it turns out that William didn\u2019t just associate with Elias Deesler; he was related to him.&nbsp; William\u2019s mother Mary Jane Layton\u2019s sister Christina had married William Henry Deesler, Elias\u2019 father.<\/p>\n<p>I knew Elias\u2019 son Raymond (Earl) and his wife Pearl.&nbsp; Matter of fact, in high school, I took care of Pearl, who was elderly, when her daughter\u2019s family was away.<\/p>\n<p class=\"\">&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"\">McCracken via Deesler &amp; Barton<\/h2>\n<p class=\"\">The Deesler family had another connection to our family.&nbsp; William Henry and Christina (Layton) Deesler\u2019s son Pomeroy married Ada Maude Barton whose brother Fred Franklin Barton married Florence Edna McCracken, Andrew McCracken\u2019s brother William T. McCracken\u2019s daughter.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"\">&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"\">Prompt: Friend, associate, Neighbor<\/p>\n<p class=\"\">#52ancestors52weeks<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"boldgrid-section\">\n<div class=\"container\">\n<div class=\"row\">\n<div class=\"col-lg-12 col-md-12 col-xs-12 col-sm-12\">\n<p class=\"\">&nbsp;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This story started as a tribute to a boy, who the McCracken family has placed flowers on his grave for decades despite not being related to him.&nbsp; Along the way, the story got bigger, more complicated with people moving all over the place and using different names on different days of the week, and I found connections to relatives and neighbors.&nbsp; This just proves that you need to be cautious when opening a can of [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":12099,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[34],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-12087","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-mccracken"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.3 - 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