When I saw the prompt “A Family Value,”  all I could think of was the Addams Family.  Why?  I don’t know for sure, but I assume it was because of the movie Addams Family Values.  Now, never mind that I have not seen the movie and I wouldn’t associate the Addams family with my family in any way.  However, I couldn’t get it out of my head.  Thus, I wrote a version of the Addam’s Family theme song about my dad’s family and some of our values.

The Theme Song

 

They’re scrappy and they’re quirky,

Industrious and mighty

They have a sense of duty

The McCracken Family
 

Their house is no museum

 When people come to see’em

They’ll try & share some wisdom

The McCracken Family.

 

[snap twice]

Weet (know)

[snap twice]

Feat

[snap twice]

Complete

 

So get an ol’ work shirt on

A shovel that works til dawn

We’re gonna pay a call on

The McCracken Family.

 

 

 

For your listening enjoyment:

The Addams Family Theme Song

A Few Stories Behind the Words

Scrappy

The McCracken boys of my grandfather’s generation ruled Farlington, Kansas.  It wasn’t that they were mean and looking for trouble.  It was the opposite.  If someone came looking for trouble, they would have to deal with the McCracken boys.

One time some young guys came planning to steal some watermelons from a neighbors farm.  Well, the McCracken boys got wind of it and put a stop to it.  No details of exactly what transpired were ever shared, but let’s just say that those guys never tried anything like that again.

 

Industrious/Hard Working

McCrackens, for the most part, were always working.  It was just expected in the family.  When people died Grandpa McCracken did not consider that an excuse to have someone else come and do the chores.  However, when someone in another family died, the McCrackens were right there to help.

The Bailey kids found out this value when some of them switched houses during the night with some of the older McCracken kids.  Grandma and Grandpa might have been surprised to see someone else’s kids in their house when they woke up.  However, that meant that the Bailey kids simply had to do the McCracken kid’s chores.

 

Duty

The McCrackens had a sense of duty to both family and country.  Dad believed that his parents expected him to care for them and help with the farm.  He made several sacrifices for them, including changes that affected his career direction and his relationships. 

One example, was that when he worked at Goodlanders Mill, he was offered a management position in Nebraska.  Obviously, he turned it down.

Uncle Doc showed his sense of duty during World War II when he joined the Army.  He was a few months shy of 44 years of age at the time.

 

Wisdom

Wisdom was bountiful in the family and came from a lot of different sources – formal education, life experiences, and for Dee her past life as a Hopi Indian. 

Some pearls of wisdom:

“Can’t is NOT allowed.”

“Schoolwork is for work at school.  Homework is for work at home.”

“If I am going to get punished, I might as well do something to get punished for.”

“You’ve got the same pants to get glad in that you got mad in.”

These are just a few of the McCracken family values.  Each one could be an entire article of its own. 

 

 

Image created using Chatgpt, the family photo taken in the 1950s, and a photo of the house at the homeplace.

Prompt: A Family Value

#52ancestors52weeks

Hot summer days with no air conditioning were perfect for homemade ice cream.  Summer gatherings of the McCracken clan sometimes had homemade ice cream.  There were enough families that several gallons of ice cream were made in various flavors.

Mom’s family also had homemade ice cream in the summer.  However, in her family it was always banana ice cream.  Why banana?  I am not sure.  I know my Grandma Dessie Pellett loved bananas, but it seems that Aunt Inez Pellett may have been behind the ice cream flavor.  No matter who made sure we made banana flavored ice cream, nobody complained.  

 

rules for making ice cream.

There were rules for making ice cream.  One had to follow a specific recipe or it wasn’t worth during.  The rules were:

Rule #1:  It had to be banana flavored using real bananas.  The banana had to be just right – not too ripe, but not green.

Rule #2:  It must be made using junkets, preferably Rennett junkets.  If the store didn’t have any or didn’t have that brand, a trip to another store was in your future.

Rule #3:  It must be hand-cranked – no electrical mixers.  

 

The Recipe

The recipe card (both copies) in Mom’s recipe box was very limited in the details it provided.  The following is the recipe in its entirety.

Banana Ice Cream

                      (As written)

Hand-cranked Banana Ice Cream

(Mom’s recipe as written)

1/2 gallon milk

1 half & half

2 cups of sugar

2 eggs

Vanilla extract

3 bananas

Salt

5 or 6 junket tables

 

There you go!  And good luck, no amounts for three items and no instructions.  Oh, you need that information.  Well, obviously, you reference the vanilla ice cream recipe that was with it.  Except that it is different.

 

Vanilla Ice Cream

                      (As written)

4 eggs

1 1/2 cups of sugar

1 pint half & half

2 Tablespoons vanilla

1/2 teaspoon salt

5 cups milk

6 junket tablets – Put into small amount of water dissolve.

Beat eggs lightly.  Gradually add sugar to beaten eggs.  Continue to beat until mixture is very stiff.  Add remaining ingredients and mix thoroughly.  Pour into gallon freezer and freeze as directed.

With an after note: Heat milk just till it is lukewarm.

 

Clearly, there are differences between the two recipes besides bananas.  Thus, I attempted to write up (with sis’ help) how I believe we actually made banana ice cream.

 

The Way we Actually made it

 

Ingredients:

1/2 gallon milk

1 pint half & half

2 cups of sugar

2 eggs

1-2 tablespoons vanilla extract  

3 bananas

1/2 teaspoon Salt

6 junket tablets

 

Instructions:

Dissolve junket tablet in a small amount of water.  Beat eggs lightly.  Gradually add sugar to beaten eggs.  I don’t recall anyone beating them till they were stiff, but possibly.  Add the remaining ingredients except milk.  I am not 100% sure on how much vanilla was added.  So if you like a lot of vanilla, go with 2 tablespoons.  Or cut it back and let the banana come through more.

The milk was heated on the stove until lukewarm.  Some of it was mixed into the egg mixture.  That was poured into the can. The bananas were sliced right into the can.  And, then the remainder of the milk was added.  The paddle was swirled around a few times to mix things.  Note: Many recipes call for the egg mixture to be heated, but I don’t recall anyone doing that.

Then the chore of churning the ice cream began with layers of ice and rock salt surrounding the can.  Care had to be taken not to put too much salt near the top of the can or it could get in the can when you opened it and some of the ice cream could become salty.

Churn until you can’t any longer.  If you can wait to eat it, pack old coats and blankets on the ice cream freezer to keep it cold (and sometimes it actually freezes it more).

 

Making The Ice Cream

Mom and Inez would make the ice cream with the eggs going into one of mom’s big Pyrex bowls.  One would handle the stuff in the bowl and the other manage heating the milk.  In my younger years, Grandma would also get in on the act.  So, you can imagine three cooks in the kitchen making one item.  Sis and I usually just watched from afar.

Now, when it came to churning, anyone that wanted could take a turn cranking the handle.  However, in reality, Dad did most of cranking.  And, if someone else was taking a turn and said that they thought it was done because they couldn’t get it to crank any more.  Dad would step in and crank it some more.

 

Eating the Ice Cream

A fight for eating the ice cream that came out with the paddle could ensue.  It wasn’t that it was better, but you got to be the one that got the first taste.  It was served as bowls of ice cream and not a small scoop like many ice cream shops serve today.  It needed no sprinkles, chocolate, or cone.  I remember savoring every spoonful.  And, I can taste it just thinking about it. (I wonder if it tasted half as good as I remember.)

 

Freezing Leftover Ice Cream

Leftover ice cream, if any, went into plastic or glass containers  and was placed into the freezer.  It would get hard and you would basically have to shave it off or use a spoon to get a small amount at a time.  It wasn’t super creamy and it wasn’t really like ice milk, but it was icy, solid, and yummy.  If you could get a small spoonful out, you could just put it in your mouth a let it melt.  So cold and so good.

I am sure there were plenty of brain freezes reported as I can remember a few.  But, it was well worth it.

 

 

 

 

Part II: Paisley, Nebraska

 

The First Arrivals

Captain James H. Blethen brought the ship Jamestown safely to America on March 11, 1850 with members of the Ronald family, Thomas Shaw, and Thomas’ wife Isabella on board.   The Ronalds stayed in the east for several months to a year before moving westward.  However, Thomas and Isabella stayed on the East Coast and he continued to work in the fabric business for several years.

The Ronalds headed to Poy Sippi, Wisconsin, which opened a post office that same year.  What took them to that specific location is unknown.  However, it is likely that it was a relatively easy location to reach and land there was cheap while also having a landscape similar to that around their old home.  

The following year, Thomas Ronald (the second son Thomas of Thomas Ronald II – yes, really!) died in Wisconsin in a farming accident.  Thus, handing the family their first loss in their new land.

 

More Arrivals

Thomas, Mary, and their children who had not immigrated to the United States in the earlier sailing arrived in New York June 26, 1856.

Onboard the Franklin King as they journeyed to America, Thomas and Mary’s daughter Mary had met and become quite attached to Joe Wallace, a sailor.  Since the family was only spending a few days on the coast before joining the rest of the family in Poy Sippi, Wisconsin, a wedding occurred in short-order.  However, Mary and Joe’s life together was cut short when Joseph drowned the following year when returning to sail at the Great Lakes.

Around 1858 or 1859, a young Scot, who had been off exploring the prairies of Nebraska, somehow landed in Wisconsin.  One thing led to another and on May 9, 1859, Margaret Ronald married Arthur Reid Thomson in Berlin, Wisconsin. 

Nebraska

After their marriage, they immediately returned to Nebraska City and ran the Western House Hotel and Cafe. 

A few years later, they moved out on the prairie west of Nebraska City.  The grass was so high in places that a man could ride a horse through it and not be seen.  Wild animals and Native Americans  were abundant.  However, not much else was out there except challenges, such as, droughts, hail and prairie fires.  Palmyra, Unadilla, Syracuse, and Lincoln hadn’t been founded yet.

They lived in a dugout for several years and Arthur filed claim for a homestead.  It was the seventeenth claim filed in Nebraska City. And, it wasn’t easy for him to get it.  Besides all of the work he did on the property, it took letters to the government in order to get them to finally deed him the property.

In the 1860s, William Bunten Ronald and John Ronald pulled up stakes and headed for Nebraska, settling in the area where their sister Margaret and her husband Arthur lived. 

Soon, Mary Ronald decided she wanted to live near all her children.  So,  Mary, her two youngest children. and her granddaughter Mary Barbara Wallace (daughter of Mary’s daughter Mary and her first husband Joseph Wallace) prepared to move.  On August 24 1864. the group left Berlin, Wisconsin in a covered wagon headed to eastern Nebraska to Margaret Thomson’s home.  Read more about  their journey to Nebraska in The Business of Western Expansion.

Then in 1866, Reverend Wake led a group of English families to the area.  They were described as forming a colony of approximately 70 families who lived in the area between Palmyra and Unadilla.  Thus, quickly increasing the population.  The following year Nebraska would become a state and more people would move into the area.

 

Properties of the Thomson (green), Ronald (purple), and Bunten (blue). School and church (orange). Unadilla (bottom right).  The Buntens later lived in North Palmyra township.

The Birth of Paisley

By 1868, the Ronalds were thinking that the people in the area needed a post office.  Robert Ronald submitted the request and on January 26, 1869, the Paisley, Nebraska post office was established at Gus Flatman’s store (Wallen place).

Robert had named the post office after his hometown in the old country.  Naming a new place after your old home, whether in another state or across the ocean was very common practice.  Using the same name gave settlers a sense of continuity, made their new home seem more familiar, and created a memorial of their old home.

The Ronald family, however, didn’t really need a post office with the name Paisley to remind them of the old country.  Newspaper ads were plentiful for paisley shawls and paisley prints.  In addition, J. and P. Coats and Clarks thread (later Coats & Clark) could be found anywhere thread was sold.  Although the Ronald family wasn’t known to have directly worked for either company, both companies traced their origins to the Ronald family’s old hometown, where thread had been made since 1722.

Reminders of home would continue for years to come.  Although no longer made in Paisley, Scotland, designs based on paisley prints can still be found in fabric stores, along with Coats & Clark thread.

Note: If your family was an early settler in a town or county, it can be a huge clue as to where they may have previously lived.

 

John Ronald, Arthur Reid Thomson, Margaret (Ronald) Thomson, and William Bunten

 

Arthur Reid and Margaret (Ronald) Thomson’s home

the Beginning of a Town

That same year (1869),  the Paisley schoolhouse was built.  And, they advertised for someone to build a mill stating that they believed they would soon have a train station on the Midland Pacific Railroad.

In early February 1872, Mr. Wallen and Mr. Luff closed a deal with the railway on a specific location for the train station.  It was about three quarters of a mile from the post office.  That spring, they laid out the town of Paisley, which they were expecting to grow into a significant trading point.  

On September 17, 1872, the Paisley post office was discontinued.  However, the name lived on.  In 1880, Paisley Stock Company was formed to manage the shipping of animals raised in the the area to other locations for sale.

Not everything went smoothly for the trusting people of Paisley.  In 1882, a man called Prof. Killebrew apparently got money from local men for something to enhance the “town.”  However, he took off with the money and was never seen again.  Only a few months later, a local newspaper reported that a man “of Paisley” had stated that he was going to start a store.  It wasn’t clear if it was to be opened in Paisley or in Unadilla.  However, no trace of the man stated can be found.

In addition, their dream of a railroad station in Paisley died in 1887.  In 1886, the Midland Pacific R.R. had surveyed the Thomson property for a rail line between Eagle and Syracuse.  They came back in 1887.  However, that summer they decided on a route that bypassed both the Thomson farm and Paisley.

Still, in 1892, Paisley had  “plans for a new creamery, store, and other institutions and organizations that go to help make a rich and prosperous city . . . “

 

School Notes

In those early years, the Paisley School covered a large area and students included: Arthur Reid and Margaret (Ronald) Thomson’s children.  William and Jane (Ronald) Bunten’s children may also have attended Paisley School although they lived quite a distance away.

In those days, the  school year was often shorter than to what we are accustomed.  For instance, in 1879, the school year did not start until early October and ended in March.  Additionally, there were times when quite a few of the students were absent on account of farm work.

In the fall of 1879, the Thomson kids’ teacher at Paisley School was F. W. Crandall.  He reported that the number of students in attendance had increased to 29 by December 12 and they were expecting many more soon.  Before the school closed in the spring, attendance had began dropping off as work in the fields began.  Still, the students and visitors enjoyed the last day of school with a noon meal and a program by the students.

At that time, the people in the area were hoping for a new school.  The district superintendent observed that the teaching was good, but the school was in bad condition. 

Grandview School, which some of the Thomsons attended. The students saluted during the Pledge of Allegiance using the Bellamy salute. The salute was changed to the hand over heart during the WWII era due to the similarity to the Nazi salute.

The community soon voted to build a new 26 ft. by 40 ft. schoolhouse. Ten years or so later, Miss Bunten was teaching at the Paisley School, which was getting a new coat of paint.

In the evenings and on weekends, the school was used for community events.  For example, they had a literary society, spelling schools, lectures, a vocal music class, and what was known as the Paisley Lyceum.  The lyceum included music, literary readings, and a lecture.  One lecture (1892) was “The Influence of Sweet Cider and similar Liquids on the Human Stomach.”

Before the end of the century Paisley School (District #6) grew so much that it was divided into Paisley #6, Sunnyside District #63, Mt. Zion District #65, Grandview District #85, and Orchard Hill District #102.

 

Community Activities

Some of the activities in the community arose out of necessity.  Coyote hunting for example was a necessity, but became a community event.  One day twenty or so men and boys went hunting.  Well, Herbert Stilwell missed his target and hit Mr. Brown in the leg.  This caused much excitement and a pledge not to have a similar hunt anytime in the near future.  But the desire to remove the trouble-causing coyotes was too great.  Another hunt was soon organized.

 

The Vigilance Society

One of the other problems for farmers in those early days were horse thieves.  Like many other communities on the frontier, Paisley residents formed a group to watch for thieves and pursue them if they tried to get away with horses belonging to any member of the group.

“The Farmer’s club for mutual protection against horse thieves” was less formally known as the  Horse Club.  It was formed in the fall of 1879.  And was put into use the following May when a horse was stolen from a local farmer.  Soon, twenty men were on the thief’s tail.  They tracked him well and caught him before he reached Lincoln.  They took him to the authorities.  Afterward, they estimated that it cost them $25 and that it would probably cost the state $500.  They implied that overall it would be much cheaper if they just spent an extra 50 cents on rope and skipped the authorities.

There was a business known as Paisley Farmer’s Insurance Company and/or the Farmer’s Protective Association that insured horses.  It is very likely this company was formed out of the Horse Club.  They felt it was better to go together to insure their horses than to buy an insurance policy from some company.

The Horse Club lasted long beyond the days that horse thieves were a significant problem.  Each year, they continued to have a business meeting and elect officers for the club.  They even continued to add members to the club long after the horse thieves were gone.

The meeting and a big dinner were held in late December or early January.  The dinners started at least by 1888 and typically included oysters, along with side dishes and desserts.  The dinners were a major event in the community.  In 1908, approximately 100 people attended the dinner.  There were several new members and the Palmyra newspaper joked that with those numbers the people of Paisley must be expecting more horse thieves.

At their dinner December 28, 1912, the club reported serving 12 gallons of oysters at the annual event.  When asked two years later how many gallons of oysters had been served, the reply was that they had no idea as they had lost count.  No mention of the dinners was made after that year.  Perhaps, they ate too many oysters.

 

The Lodge

Later in the Fall of 1879, the Independent Order of Good Templars Lodge was set to start a group, which would meet at the Paisley School.  Many people indicated an interest in the organization as it supported abstaining from alcohol.  The initial attempt to organize failed.  However, the next attempt was a success and Paisley Lodge No. 218  got off the ground with 25 members and more expected to join in the near future.  

Officers were soon selected with Mary Thomson elected Vice Templar and A (Arthur R. or Arthur T. R.) Thomson elected Guard.  In 1880, they had a rousing debate “There is more pleasure in pursuit than possession.”  However, in 1881, word was that the lodge was going to reorganize.  And, at that point, it appeared to go the way of the post office – opening to great enthusiasm only to close a short time later.

 

Other Gatherings & Parties

Occasionally, parties and gatherings were held at the school or the home of one of the members of the community.  For instance, in 1880, a candy party was held at Robert Ronald’s house.  He provided the space, but others made up the committee planning the event.  Another interesting party took place in 1882.  It was a masquerade party held, not near Halloween, but in February.

In 1888, Paisley held an ice cream and strawberry festival, which like many activities drew people, particularly the younger folks.  It was said to be a great event except that they couldn’t make ice cream as fast as the people could eat it.

When  the World’s Columbian Exposition (Chicago’s World’s Fair) was held in Chicago from May 1 to October 30, 1893 celebrating the 400th anniversary of Christopher Columbus’ 1492 voyage. Paisley sent a group to the event.  Twelve people, including John and Arthur Thomson, made the trip to Chicago.

 

The Church

Sunday School and Church services had been prevalent in the neighborhood since at least the late 1870s.  In 1879, the M. E. Sunday School at Paisley received a donation of 300 used books from William Hamilton of Philadelphia.  It was considered an extremely valuable gift to the program.

That same year, a large group of people filled the schoolhouse and overflowed outdoors.  It wasn’t for their regular Sunday School or church service, which had been happening for some time.  Instead, it was to discuss building a church.  However, the condition of the school made a new school a higher priority.

It would be over ten years before the the church  was officially organized.  In the meantime, Sunday School continued with church services on occasion.  The church held two major events every year.  Everyone looked forward to the  Christmas tree.  Even in years where money was extra tight, they tried to have small gifts for the young kids.  The other major event was Children’s Day at Sunday School, which typically took place in June.  On Children’s Day the children of the church showed off their talents singing, reading, and reciting with flowers or greenery often decorating the space.

 

A New Church

In September 1892, the church at Paisley was officially organized.  The charter members included: Mrs. Eleanor Pell, Mr. and Mrs. William Rotton, Mr. and Mrs. E. Luff, Mr. and Mrs. W. Stevenson, Mr. and Mrs. S. B. Avery, Sr., Mrs. W. H. Johnson, Mr. and Mrs. Wemple, Mr. and Mrs. Thomas Bell (pastor), Mrs. D. Stilwell, Mrs. A. P. Seymour, and Miss Edma Freeze.  The first deacons of the church were  S.B.Avery and W.H. Johnson.  W. Stevenson served as the first clerk and E. Luff served as the first treasurer.

After waiting so long, they wanted a church that would hold a crowd.  Elijah Luff, one of the men who came to the area with Rev. Wake, donated land at the crest of a hill for the church.  He only had one condition.  At least one church service had to be held there each year or the land would revert to his heirs.  The community donated money and time to build the 48 ft. by 32 ft. building with a seating capacity of 135 people

When the church was nearing completion, a newspaper noted that the church really added to the landscape.  What they probably didn’t realize was that it would become a landmark and reference point for years to come.

On February 4, 1894,  Paisley Church was dedicated.  It was officially “The Paisley First Congregational Church of Christ.”  The name was later officially changed to “The First Congregational Church of Paisley.”  However, it was informally called Paisley Congregational Church or simply Paisley Church.

Rev. Thomas Bell was considered the first pastor of the church having been officially named as pastor in June 1893.  However, he and others had been doing services for the people of Paisley for many years.

Arthur Reid and Margaret (Ronald) Thomson’s Family

By the time the church was built, the only one of the Ronald family still living in the Paisley area was Margaret (Ronald) Thomson.  Read about the The Ronald Brothers In Business.

Although the Ronalds were no longer in Paisley, the Thomsons were still referred to as the Thomson branch of the Ronald Clan, particularly when holding their yearly family gatherings (January 1), which  would be held at Margaret (Ronald) Thomson’s home for 65 years.  Despite the Ronald reference, over time the family gatherings included mostly members of the Thomson family.  However, letters from relatives in the Ronald family and others were sometimes read at the festivities.

Margaret and her husband Arthur Reid Thomson did not join the Paisley Church as they had long ago become charter members of the Palmyra Presbyterian Church.

Three years after the church was built, it was papered and it was already requiring a few repairs.  One of the repairs was to one of the church doors.  On Children’s Day, part of one of the doors had come loose and struck one of the ladies and knocked her unconscious.

Around that same time, the people were working to get a road from Paisley to Palmyra.  Arthur Thomson was likely in favor of the new road since in 1885 he had purchased a brand new phaeton, an open-air, four-wheeled horse-drawn carriage.  They got their wish and a road was built.

Turn Of the Century

Known For their Generosity

The Paisley community was known for its generosity, whether it was a family in need, repairs for the church or school, or for someone they didn’t even know.  The church sent about $60 one year to the Syrians and Armenians.  Another time, they gave $400 to the Red Cross.  And, on one occasion they sent 40 dozen eggs to a hospital in Omaha.  No matter the cause, the Ladies Aid Society was usually the driving force behind gathering items or money.

Paisley Ladies Aid Society 

Sept 1912, the women of Paisley Church organized Paisley Ladies Aid Society.  There had been a similar group in earlier years that had cooked for the less fortunate.  The earlier group was said to have been very busy during the blizzard of 1888.

Although it was a church group, they did not exclude others from attending their meetings.  This made for a larger group that could accomplish more for the community.  Margaret (Ronald) Thomson was among those who attended throughout the years.  In 1927, Margaret invited the Ladies of the Aid Society to visit her at her home in Palmyra.  The following month, Nellie Stilwell (President of the Ladies Aid Society) and her daughter Mary brought Margaret a guestbook with the names of 50 ladies that had visited her home earlier that summer.  The book was said to be very special to her as were the people of Paisley.

The  Ladies Aid Society was always busy doing something to help someone.  When disaster struck, they were there.  When a family’s home burnt, they collected goods and made quilts for the family.  Likewise, they put together packages for tornado victims and sent clothes to flood victims.

During what came to be known as World War I, the group sent 10 bed shirts, 1 helmet, 3 pair of socks, and 5 sweaters to the Red Cross. The school also got in on the action of supporting the war with 32 people joining the Paisley School War Savings Society.

They were also instrumental in raising money for various church projects, missions, and more.

The Paisley Ladies Aid Society funded some of their projects with their annual Thanksgiving supper and bazaar.  Others were funded with bake sales, selling dinner at sales, and socials.  

 

The Socials

In the later 19th century, fundraisers called “socials’ began popping up.  However, became regular events after the turn of the century.  They were common in Paisley.  The community used them to raise money for a library, hymnals, and other needs of the church, school, or club.

Various types of socials were held, such as, box/pie suppers, necktie socials, shadow socials, dime socials, ice cream socials, and hardtimes socials.  

 

Box Supper/Pie Supper

Box Suppers (sometimes called Pie Suppers) were the most common type of social.  They were a combination of potluck, charity, and matchmaking all rolled into one event.  

The girls, young ladies, and women would decorate boxes or baskets containing dinner or dessert for two people.  The males at the event would bid on the boxes without (or supposedly without) knowing whose box they were bidding on.

The winner of each box got the right to (or really was required to) eat dinner with the female that had prepared the box.  The ladies often gave hints about their box to their beau or a guy of interest.  Of course, if other guys got wind of which box belonged to a certain woman and they knew one of their friends really wanted that woman’s box, they would bid it up with every intention of letting him have it, but making him pay more to get the box.

Now, I suspect there was some colluding between moms or other women in the neighborhood.  I vaguely remember one such social when I was quite young – far too young for dating.  Anyway, I know there was conversation between my mom and the neighbor lady.  They planned for the neighbor’s son, who was around my age, to buy my box.  

 

Necktie Socials

The Necktie Socials that were held were similar, in that they were a combination of charity and matchmaking.  Food was also typically involved.

For Necktie Socials, the girls, young ladies, and women would  make a necktie and another item using the same fabric.  The  neckties were put up for auction or blindly drawn by the males in attendance for a fixed fee.  The men then had to wear the necktie all evening.  The first thing they had to do was to find the female who was wearing an apron, ribbon, or other item that was made with the same cloth. 

It is unclear what happened if multiple neckties were made of the same cloth as could easily happen in a rural area with access to a limited stock of fabric.  Likely, it would be up to the women to figure out who made which necktie.

Once the couple was matched, they would then be partners for the evening.  Depending on the event, they might eat supper together or might just have dessert together.  They would also be partners for any games that were held and would be dance partners if dancing was part of the evening’s event.  Of course, there were lots of attempts by the guys to sneak a peak at the fabric of the fabric worn by the girl they liked.  And, you can be sure that the females were not innocent.  They likely gestured to a hair ribbon or other item when the guy they liked looked their direction.

 

Dime Social

Dime socials were often for women and girls only.  However, the women of Paisley may have invited the men to join the group.  Money was raised by charging a dime to attend. 

The group enjoyed activities, entertainment, refreshments, and fellowship.  Activities often included games such as: charades, Bible trivia, and “Who has the button.”  Sometimes the women and girls entertained the others with poetry, readings, music, or skits.  The food was also simple, focusing on homemade goods, such as, cookies, biscuits, or pie.

 

Ice Cream Social/Ice Cream Supper

Ice Cream Socials were similar to Dime Socials. as they combined fundraising, entertainment, and food.  And, food apparently was something that the women of Paisley were known for as the newspapers made mention on several occasions regarding the cooking of the women of Paisley.  In 1924, the ladies of Paisley’s 200 page cookbook “The Best By Test” was released.

For the Ice Cream Social, however, the women limited their cooking to ice cream and homemade cakes, pies, and cookies.  Like the Dime Socials, people would pay a fixed amount or perhaps give a donation that would go to the cause of the day.

It was a family friendly event that included music, recitations, actives, and fellowship.  Ice Cream Socials held by the church leaned more toward  hymns and religious activities.  It was an opportunity to bring the community together as people often attended who didn’t belong to the Paisley Church, Paisley School, or club holding the social.  As such, it was also a good opportunity for supervised courtship.

 

Shadow Socials

A shadow social followed the same themes of fundraising, matchmaking, and food.  At the shadow social, the males bid on the shadow of a female.  

The girls, young ladies, and women, who were behind a sheet with light casting their shadow onto it, tried to hide their identity.  Some wore big hats and/or held props.  They would also change their natural posture and add extra poof to their hair and dresses. 

The females loved trying to trick the males. And, everyone got a good laugh when a guy would bid high only to find out that he had just purchased the opportunity to spend time with his own sister.

The female was revealed to the winning bidder.  The two of them then shared supper/dessert or a dance.

 

Hardtimes Socials

Hardtimes socials were a bit of a twist compared to most socials.  Instead of getting dressed in your Sunday best, or at least one of your better outfits, attendees wore worn out, torn, tattered, and patched clothing.

To encourage participation, a prize was sometimes given for the bet costume and finery was strictly forbidden.  Inspectors were assigned and anyone whose costume was not considered old enough or tattered enough was fined a very small amount.

The theme of the evening was not limited to attire.  The school or church hosting the event was decorated with plain, old things, such as, old crates.  Likewise, the supper or desserts served were plain items, such as, beans and cornbread.

Money was raised for the night’s cause, not only from the fines, but also from a small admissions cost or cost to participate in activities.  

The idea for these social rose out of hard times when people didn’t have money (e.g. 1893).  It allowed everyone to be equal (or at least more equal) as poorer and richer families all were wearing old things.  It also relieved tension in hard times and still gave a good laugh in the good times.

 

Paisley School in the later years

Paisley School 

A majority of the socials were held at the school with the others generally held at the church.  However, there were many other activities associated with the school or where the school was used when classes weren’t in session.

 

School Activities

Christmas Program

At Christmas, the school would have a program with treats.  In 1931, the children read stories and showed their work to their mothers and other visitors in the afternoon.  Then, they got a visit from Santa who brought candy and nuts.  There were also presents around the Christmas tree.

Santa, however, couldn’t stay long as he had to hurry to get ready for the program and Christmas tree at the Paisley Church that evening.  The teacher, Miss Stilwell, gave each of the students a piece of fruitcake and a banana before they hurried off toward their homes.  After all, they also had to get re in ady for the church program that evening.

 

End of School

At the end of school, parents and visitors coming to the school.  The day was one of celebration.  The students often performed a program or showed off their work.  Everyone enjoyed a basket lunch.  Baseball often followed with the men playing the boys or the married men playing the unmarried boys and men.  

 

Sports

Paisley was large enough to raise a baseball team and both boys and girls’ basketball teams.  The Boys usually played baseball against the boys from Unadilla or Palmyra.  It was said that the Paisley baseball field was one of the best around.

Boys basketball was typically against the other towns or neighborhoods.  However, the girls game was a bit more social.  For that game the girls met the other team at the church.  They all had dinner together.  Then they played basketball, which was followed by going horseback riding.

 

Evening Activities

The school was used for a variety of activities outside the school day.  Literary societies, debate, lectures, and even a moving picture show used the school as their venue.

 

The Orchestra

The Paisley Orchestra gave recitals and likely practiced at the school.  Now, when you think of neighborhoods in a rural farming community, the first thing that comes to your mind probably isn’t the presence of an orchestra.  However, Paisley had an orchestra that seemed to be quite well received.  They played  at the Otoe County Fair, the Unadilla M. E. Church homecoming, the Palmyra Presbyterian Church and at other events. 

Then in 1929 they formed the Paisley-Palmyra Orchestra with between 25 and 30 members.  That year they played at the Old Settlers celebration at Palmyra.  The following year they formed a children’s orchestra with students from Paisley, Unadilla, and Palmyra.  That orchestra was huge for the location as it consisted of 10 violins, 7 saxophone, 7 clarinet, 3 trombone, 6 cornet, 2 bass, 1 drum, and 2 piano players.

 

Women’s Groups

The Paisley Project Club (a.k.a. the Never Idle Project Club) was a women’s group, sometimes met at the school.  Other times, they met in people’s homes.  They learned new sewing techniques, how to make a hook rug, wall papering techniques, landscaping, care of furniture, refinishing furniture, and more.  They put on a program  consisting of plays and music by the orchestra. They also had their sewing on display.  Like many events, refreshments were served.

Women also got together for quilting circles and in 1931, the group Early Hour Cooks was started.  As the name says, it was a cooking group.  Another group in the area was the Jolly Neighbor’s Club.  

 

4-H

A portion of the 4H club meetings were held at the school.  Others were held in members or leaders’ homes.  In 1928, the Paisley Jolly Workers, who were also known as the Paisley Cloth Club, had 18 members for their first meeting with 6 visitors.  The meeting included sewing (or learning about it), singing, games, and dessert.  Later on, they stopped having refreshments because they felt that it took too much time away from working on their projects and learning new skills.  They were very achievement oriented.

Another group was called the Hopper Creek Hoppers Calf Club.  As you might imagine, this 4-H group was focused on raising calves.

4-H groups continued with the Peppy Paisley Pats, which included Janet and Deanna Lamb, still meeting at the Paisley School in 1963.

 

The Grounds

School at Paisley was like many country schools.  It was a place of community and it always seemed to need something updated.

In December 1905, they built a shed on the school grounds.  Then, in 1911, the coal house (possibly the same building) needed reshingled.  The next year brought the need to refloor the school, although it is curious that they did it in January in the middle of the school year.

A new roof was required in 1918.  And, of course, the school needed plastering and painting, too.  In 1923, a cyclone cave was built at the school to protect the students and teacher if a storm arose.

In 1931, instead of adding to the school grounds, they removed the aging cottonwood trees that had stood on the playground for 50 years.

 

The Church 

Like the school, it always seemed that the church was in need of something being fixed or updated.

In 1912, the stoves were renovated.  The following year the church was repainted and gas lighting was installed in the church.

In 1914, with a new full-time pastor, the people of the church and broader community scraped together money to build a parsonage next to the church.   It would be used by the church’s ministers over the years.  However, the church only had three full-time ministers.  The remainder of the time, a pastor at another church in the area would provide services at Paisley.  When not in use by the pastor, the parsonage was used for club meetings and other activities.

1917 was a busy year for updates as the church was papered, screens were added to the church windows, and a piano was purchased for the church.  The Ladies Aid Society was instrumental in financing and getting these updates made.  The following year the roof was reshingled.

1919 brought an update that was out of the ordinary.  That year, instead of painting, papering, or repairs, the hedge along the church was cut down.  People seemed to think that the removal of the hedge was an improvement to the church grounds.

 

Hub of Activity

The church was often a hub of activity.  At times, multiple church services were held on Sunday with services and Sunday School in the morning and a program in the evening.  Several of the Thomson’s attended at least one evening church service at Paisley.  It did not state the topic of the sermon for that evening.  However, it was parents day at the church and although they weren’t the parents of any members, that might have driven their attendance.

Other times, only one church service was held on Sunday.  Depending on the schedule of the pastor who was speaking, the service was sometimes held in the morning and other times held in the afternoon.

There were other times when the church services were more sparse.  In those times, the church still held Sunday School.  They had a superintendent of the Sunday School that managed the program.  Nellie Thomson’s husband Ora Baker was the superintendent for the 1919-1920 year.

Other regular church activities included prayer meetings and choir rehearsal.  And, of course, the annual church picnic always drew a crowd.

On the third Sunday in June 1922, the District Sunday School Convention was held at Paisley Church.  The convention had a full agenda lasting from mid-afternoon til late evening.  Thus, Paisley Church did not hold a regular church service or Sunday School that day.

The church was also the scene of revivals, patriotic meetings during WWI, temperance rallies, presentations by missionaries, and even a home canning demonstration.

On July 31, 1925, Paisley Ladies Aid Society invited former Paisley residents to a picnic at the parsonage.  People invited were now living in Minnesota, Indiana, California, and all across Nebraska.  Approximately 90 people gathered that day to renew friendships.  Several of the Thomson family attended including Margaret, John, and Herbert.

One of the biggest celebrations at the church was held in February 1929 when the congregation celebrated the 35th anniversary of the church.  The celebration included members of the church and friends in the community.  Four ministers participated in the celebration with one giving an address.  Charlotte Stilwell provided a reading of the church history.  Music was also a big part of the celebration and the ladies quartet sang.  

By 1930, the church had 70 members.  The Easter service that year was followed by a picnic dinner.  The following year, members remarked that they couldn’t do a lot because of the depression, but at least they could still have church services.

 

The Lightening Strike

The Fire

Around 4:30 a.m. on July 29, 1940, lightening sizzled from the sky striking the ground.  It was so loud that a woman a half-mile or so from the strike looked out to see if she could see where it hit.  She saw nothing, but a short time later, she smelled smoke.  She knew the lightening had started a fire.  So, she called the Unadilla phone operator who then put out an alert.

The lightening had hit the Paisley Church Steeple.  The fire had spread throughout the church and even to the church parsonage.  It was one of three churches in Nebraska hit by lightening that week!

There was very little that could be done to save the buildings.  The churches well was between the two buildings and chemicals brought from Unadilla did little to slow the inferno.

There seemed to be some debate as to what, if anything, was able to be saved from the church.  Some reports said that the piano and some other items had been saved and others said that nothing was saved.  The building and contents were covered by $1700 insurance with the structure valued at $1500 and the contents valued at $1000.

 

To Rebuild or not to Rebuild

Paisley Church – 1941 Version

At the time of the fire, regular Sunday School had been being held at the church.  However, they hadn’t had a regular minister since the previous year.  Also, the person who had held the role of secretary and as Sunday School superintendent had retired after eighteen years.  The president of the Ladies Aid Society had also been serving for many years.  Thus, it would seem ripe for a decision to just let the church go.

That, however, was not the decision.  The church meant a lot to the community and to the people who had previously lived there.  Thus, By mid-October, a decision had been made to rebuild the church.  However, they decided not to rebuild the parsonage.

Soon after the decision was made, the congregation held a service outdoors near the ruins of the church.  Within a week of the service, they began clearing away the debris and preparing to build.

The new church was to be 24 ft. by 36 ft., which was smaller than the original church.  However, it  was to have several new features.  The plan included a 9 ft. by 15 ft. vestibule, a full basement, and electricity.  A contractor did the primary building with the people of the community assisting where practical.  For example, the women varnished the floors and the woodwork.

 

The Dedication

By August 31, 1941, the church was ready to be dedicated.  An earlier pastor presided over the event.  And, the 100 attendees sang “Abide with me,” the same hymn that was sang at the dedication of the church in 1894.  Following the dedication, a dinner was held in the basement.

By Thanksgiving, the church ladies were back to their regular routine, holding a supper and a bazaar at the church.

 

And, in an instant

Bye, Bye Paisley School

By the early 1960s transportation was improving, families were getting smaller, and schools were consolidating.  The last mention of Paisley School was in November 1963.  It is assumed that it closed at the end of the school year.  Dale Lamb was one of the members of the school board at this time.

Similarly, Grandview School, which had spun off from Paisley School and which some of the next generation of Thomsons had attended, had closed after the 1957-1958 school year.  At the time that it closed, Grandview had 16 students.  George Thomson was one of the last school board members of the school.

Then, on July 1, 1965, tornadoes broke out in eastern Nebraska.  They dipped out of the sky and  hit a home, several barns, and several outbuildings.  By the time the weather calmed, Paisley School was gone, the victim of one of the cyclones.

 

Unsolved Mysteries

The last service mentioned at Paisley Church was held on September 3, 1964.  By the end of the year, the church had gifted dishes and silverware to the Methodist Church in Unadilla.  It is assumed that the church ceased operations about this time.

In the mid-1960s, Emaline Stilwell purchased the Paisley Church.  She thought it could be converted to a nice home.  However, the years went by and the church sat empty.  She just never got around to remodeling it.

Then in 1989, Emaline was approached about using the church for the TV show “Unsolved Mysteries.”  She really didn’t want to accept the offer as it meant that the church would be blown up.  However, her attorney  convinced her that the proposed widening of Highway 2 would likely require demolishing the church anyway. Thus, she agreed to the shows request. 

Emaline decided that at least the church would have a good story that would allow it to be remembered.

 

The Explosion

The story that was being re-created was about the natural gas explosion that rocked West Side Baptist Church in Beatrice, Nebraska on March 1, 1950.

The pastor came to the church in the afternoon.  Everything seemed normal.  He lit the furnace so that it would be warm for choir practice that evening.  Then he left.

At precisely 7:27 p.m. that evening, the church exploded.  People in the area reported that it sounded like a bomb.  Not only had the church exploded, but there was damage for several hundred feet around the church.

 

The Miracle

They mystery wasn’t why the church exploded or even how a special artifact survived.  Instead, the question posed by the TV show was if it was coincidence or divine intervention that led to all the choir members to survive by being late to practice.

As it is told, the choir director was a stickler for everyone being on time.  Choir practice started at 7:25 p.m. and everyone was expected to arrive by 7:20 to get ready for practice.  Members of the choir were very punctual and usually started arriving around 7:15 p.m. 

However, on March 1, 1950, ALL fifteen member of the choir were late – including the choir director and the preacher.  So, at 7:27 p.m when the church exploded, no one was inside the church.  

People were crying and digging through the rubble of the church  looking for survivors when the choir members started arriving!  

 

Speculation

There was a lot of speculation about divine intervention versus coincidence.  Some people argued each side. 

One article did a calculation based on the likelihood of this happening given the choir members were generally always on time.  They decided that  for estimating the scenario that the odds for one person being late would be 10%.  Their calculation wasn’t accurate.  However, the author’s point was 100% on target.  The odds were so small that it couldn’t possibly be a coincidence. 

 

The Recreation

For the recreation, staff for the show wanted to show and tell the story as similar to what had happened 40 years earlier as possible.  Thus, they talked to all the choir members that they could regarding why they were late, filmed around Beatrice, and they looked for a church that resembled West Side Baptist Church.  Paisley Church was a white wood-frame church of a similar style.  Thus, it was perfect.

On November 21, 1989, crews prepared the church, adding some new white paint, dynamite, gasoline, etc.  Then at 8:50 p.m., after shutting down Highway 2, they blew up the Paisley Church.  The blast was supposed to destroy the south and east sides of the building, but they over did it a bit and it destroyed everything.  Even the bushes nearby looked like they had been torched.

One newspaper mentioned how the church had held many funerals and now it was going to hold its own.  In reality, it wasn’t just holding its own funeral, it was holding the funeral of a once vibrant community!

 

 

Note: The show was aired January 3, 1990. Check out: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=buhQ7Tf12Nw

 

Afterward

Things That Made Me Wonder

Several things that I found in newspaper articles really made me wonder.  The first was references to different regions of Paisley, such as, north Paisley, west Paisley, etc.  And, of course, in Paisley.

Another thing that raised questions in my mind was when the newspaper reported in 1921 that Frank Wallen was elected mayor of Paisley.  Really?  They had a mayor?  Who got to vote?

Publications

Supposedly, in 1939 the WPA wrote a history of the church.  If anyone knows where a copy exists, please let me know.

I am also very interested in seeing a copy of the Ladies Aid cookbook “The Best By Test.” 

 

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Part I: Paisley, Scotland

 

This story starts in what has been called the “biggest town” in Scotland.  It isn’t the largest city, but rather the biggest town.

Thomas Ronald

On May 27, 1798, Thomas Ronald was born to Thomas and Margaret (Stewart) Ronald.  He was born in Paisley, Scotland, which is just west of Glasgow.

Thomas’ mother died young as did one of his three siblings, leaving sisters Mary and Agnes.

On June 6, 1820, Thomas Ronald married Mary Gourley in Paisley High Church.  It was the same church where  his parents had married twenty-seven years earlier.  It had been built in the mid-1700s.  Located at Church Hill and Oakshaw Street, the building continues to be used today by the ecumenical Oakshaw Trinity Church, which was formed in the 1990s when the congregations of Paisley High, St. John’s and the Paisley Congregational churches united.

 

This is the back of Paisley High Church.  Source: Thomas Nugent / High Church.  https://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:High_Church_-_geograph.org.uk_-_387075.jpg

Mary Gourley

Mary Gourley was born in Paisley on February 18, 1803.  Her parents were Robert and Margaret (Young) Gourley.

Mary’s siblings are not fully confirmed.  It is believed that some died young.  Yet, one brother William Gourley is known and well documented.

Mary married Thomas Ronald in Paisley High Church although her parents had married in Paisley Abbey.  It appears that the family had changed churches by the time Mary was born 7 and a half years later, as she was baptized at Paisley High Church a few days after her birth.

The Abbey had an even longer history than Paisley High.  Its history dated back to the 8th century.  However, in 1307, Edward I ordered it destroyed during the Wars for Scottish Independence because it was linked to the powerful Stewart [unknown if related to Margaret (Stewart) Ronald] family who supported the rebel leader.

It was rebuilt, but the  original design was altered.  In later centuries, portions of the building fell into disrepair and were abandoned from use, while some parts continued to be used.  Numerous reconstruction projects have occurred over the years.

Services are still held at Paisley Abbey today.

 

Paisley Abbey
By © User:Colin / Wikimedia Commons, CC BY-SA 3.0, https://commons.wikimedia.org/w/index.php?curid=28660792

The Weaver

Thomas’ occupation at the time of his marriage is unknown.  However, by 1841, Thomas was working in the textile industry as hand loom weaver.  It is very possible he had been working in the textile industry for many years prior to this time as a hand loom weaver was a very skilled position and the textile industry had long existed in Paisley.

In the early 1800s, Paisley artisans had first created an imitation of the Kashmire shawls with its very intricate pattern.  The artisans had refined the design and westernized it.  Then around the time of Thomas and Mary’s marriage, they had made modifications to looms to accommodate the pattern and create colorful designs for which Paisley became famous. 

Thomas is said to have been an expert weaver, making broché shawls.  These shawls were high quality shawls using the paisley design.  They used a brocade-style weaving technique.  Extra color yarn was inserted as needed by the pattern, which created raised designs that had the appearance of embroidery.  The shawls were seen as a status symbol and although not cheap, they were not nearly as expensive as the Kashmire shawls.

Since work was often done in the home or small workshops, Thomas may have been the lead weaver in a small group since his son William, who was 18, also worked as a hand loom weaver, while his fourteen year-old son John was a hand loom weaver assistant.

 

Thomas The Hand Loom weaver

Weaving was not a simple job.  Before the loom could be operated, Thomas would have had to threaded hundreds of threads in the loom.  This included measuring, threading, and tying them very uniformly.  This was not a quick task.  The  time required was dependent on the complexity of the design to be woven.  If a specialty design, such as, the paisley design or a floral, was to be created for a multi-colored shawl or cloth, the setup time could be quite extensive, as an exact count of each color of thread had to be made.  A single thread count off and the pattern would be ruined.

Operating the loom might be compared to playing an organ where both the hands and feet are involved.  And, a good rhythm is necessary for success.  Thomas would have used his feet to press the treadles to raise and lower specific threads to create an opening.  Then he would have used his hands to put a wooden device with thread in it into the opening.  In a quick motion, he would have pulled a wood frame forward to tighten the threads and build the cloth.  A continuous even rhythm made for a good weave.  Some weavers could do this process as many as 80 times in a minute (i.e. faster than once a second!!!).

Since factories had been built by this time, the prices for cloth had diminished.  Therefore, Thomas and his sons most likely worked 14 to 16 hours a day, six days a week just to get by.  Clearly, doing this activity for this many hours per week would be quite physically draining, not to mention how repetitive it would have been.  Later, Thomas had issues with his feet that were caused by operating the treadles.
This time was generally spent in  a damp, dark room.  The dampness was necessary for the process.  Without it, the threads could become dry and snap or fray and ruin the piece.

The Great Famine

In the 1840s, the Great Famine occurred in Ireland.  This caused a general economic downturn.  In addition, many people fled Ireland to avoid starvation.  A great number of Irish refugees arrived in Paisley as it was near the western coast of Scotland and only a short distance from Ireland.

This unfortunately created a great strain on Paisley with new workers that would work for less money and people vying for food and housing.  Because the textile industry of Paisley was struggling, Queen Victoria bought 17 Paisley shawls in hopes that would boost the industry.  She wore the shawls when she made public appearances, including the christening of her son.  Thus, the paisley pattern became a status symbol for women of high-society.  Eventually, the paisley pattern adorned various clothing and accessories in addition to the famous shawls.

 

A Decade Later

By 1851, Thomas was listed as a weaver and a cloth inspector in the Bleachfield.  This likely meant that he now worked for one of the textile factories.  As a cloth inspector, Thomas would have inspected cloth looking for any issues with sizing, lumps of thread, broken threads, uneven edges, issues with color, etc.  All issues would be marked and recorded.  Sometimes an inspector would repair minor issues.  Thomas would have been a trusted employee upon whom the company relied to ensure the quality of the product that they were producing.

Since Thomas worked in the Bleachfield, that meant that he inspected cloth where it was whitened and finished.  Originally, this job was literally in a field.  However, at this point, it was part of the factory process.  He could have worked with a wide array of woven fabrics or even threads. Note: Advertisements for selling or leasing Bleachfield Printworks should not be confused with working in a bleachfield.  These advertisements were simply for weaving/print facilities that included a bleachfield.  Thomas working in a bleachfield didn’t imply that he worked at any specific factory, although family stories say that he may have worked at Blackland Mill for a period of time.  This is possible as it was only a short distance from Potterhill, the location where he resided in 1851.

By this time, Thomas’ wife Mary had joined him working in textiles.  Mary may have been working to help the family financially as despite the high production of Paisley, economic challenges plagued the industry.  

Mary was a warp winder.  Mary’s job, one that many women held, was to wind yarn onto a device to create a “warp” of threads to be used on the weaving loom.  Although not as highly skilled as weaver, the job of a warp winder also required precision.  Like with the weaving loom, the threads have to be even and at the correct tension.  This was a very important role as a breakage or tangle could ruin the work of the weaver.  However, it was not considered a highly skilled job.

 

America Bound

Family Moves

In 1850, Thomas and Mary’s sons John, Thomas, and William Ronald boarded the ship Jamestown. On January 10, they headed for America.  With them were the elder Thomas’ widowed sister Mary Bunten and her son William Bunten, who was 17.  Also making the trip were Thomas Shaw and his wife Isabella.  Thomas was the son of the elder Thomas’ sister Agnes.

The reason for the move isn’t known specifically.  Family stories say that the boys worked on farms along the Hudson river that summer. However, it is possible that some of them were recruited to come to America to work in the textile industry as America was offering people even better wages and more stability.  It is known that they stayed on the East Coast for about a year before moving inland and that Thomas Shaw continued to work as a calico printer beyond that time. 

 

Thomas and Mary Move

Six years later, Thomas, Mary and their children Mary, Margaret, Jane, and Robert would board the ship Franklin King (Captain Watts) and make a similar journey.  Oddly, the ship manifest listed them under Ireland.  We know that they were not Irish, nor were their parents.  Thus, this is either an error or they lived in Ireland for a time prior to moving to America.

 

Belfast?

Why would they have moved to Ireland, especially given the economic and food situation that had been occurring in Ireland?  Well, although not proven, it appears that they may have had economic incentive to move to Belfast or other town in Ulster, Ireland.  Although the shawl trade would remain quite active until around 1870, it was constantly plagued by fluctuations in the need for workers and wage disputes.  Additionally, the textile industry in Scotland was also undergoing a shift to more and more mechanized processes.  And, the industry was struggling with the changes.  This may have impacted Thomas’ role.

On the other hand, the textile industry in Ireland was booming.  Thomas would have been a highly sought after employee because of his expertise.  The companies from Ireland even came to Paisley, Glasgow, and other areas recruiting supervisors and people with special skills, including quality control and their understanding of complex weaving patterns, to come to Ireland.  They offered better pay and stability for management and highly technical roles.

Thus, although it is possible that the recording of Ireland as their residence was in error, it seems very likely that Thomas and Mary lived for a time in Ireland.

 

Laborers & Servants?

The ship’s manifest also begged the question why would Thomas and his son Robert be listed as laborers if Thomas, at least, had a history in the textile industry.  Similarly, all the females in the family were listed as servants.

Apparently, neither of these were uncommon.  Clerks on ships often simply listed artisans as laborers no matter how prestigious a role they might play.  Additionally, it was very common for all females age 12 and over to be listed as servants except the wealthy or other rare exceptions.

 

Why America Now?

Thomas, Mary, and their youngest children likely left Scotland at the urging of their children who were already in America.  Besides, the textile industry, in which they were employed and which was a primary driver of the Paisley economy had not been stable since the 1840s when many facilities had shut down due to economic issues.  Thus, if they remained in Scotland, work may have become increasingly more difficult to find. 

On the other hand, if Thomas and family did actually migrate to Ireland,  they may also have had a reason to immigrate to America.  The Crimean War created a boom in the textile industry in Belfast and other areas.  Cloth was needed due to blockades preventing Russian linens from being exported.  Prices, demand, and wages were high during the war.  The war, however, ended just a short time prior to the family sailing for America.  With the end of the war came the loss of many contracts in the region, which meant a lot of out of work textile workers.

 

Today In Paisley

Today, Paisley is home to approximately 80,000 people.  The major employers in the town are the government, colleges, hospital, and airport.  However, many of the people living there work in Glasgow.

Paisley is known for its history, weaving legacy, cultural heritage, and architecture.  The textile mills and factories are all gone; however, nearly two hundred years after it became famous, the paisley pattern continues to be prominent in fashion, decor, and more.

 

Coming Soon

Part II of the story will focus on life across the ocean in Paisley, Nebraska.

 

Prompts: A Spot on the Map 

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My family name with the longest lineage in America is the Peelle/Peele/Peel family.  There are still people with the last name that descended from Lawrence Peele, who immigrated from England.  However, In my family line the Peele name ended with my grandmother’s generation.  Her and her siblings were the 10th generation of people with the name Peelle that had walked on this continent.

 

Generation 1

Lawrence born in England around the turn of the 17th century.  He immigrated to America in 1621, sailing on the Margaret & John.  Thus, he was a very early English settler in Virginia.

Life in those early years were tough and many of the settlers died.  Lawrence was young and apparently healthy enough to survive the many challenges of living in untamed territory.  

In 1624, Lawrence (spelled Larence Peale in London Company Records) remained unmarried.  Another man, who was a few years his senior and who had recently arrived, was staying with him in Elizabeth Cittie, Virginia Colony.  The household inventory included four barrels of corn, two bushels of peas, 300 fish, 1 house, 2 arms, 6 pounds of powder and 6 pounds of lead.

Lawrence established his household on the western Branch of the Elizabeth River in Elizabeth Cittiee County.  At some point, he married and had at least one son, who he named Robert.

Lawrence survived times of sickness, famine, and attacks by Native Americans.  It is believed he lived until at least 1664.

Read more about Lawrence Peele as an early colonist.

Generation 2

Robert Peelle is believed to be the son of Lawrence and to have been born by around 1635 in Elizabeth Cittie County, Virginia.  Proof that his father was Lawrence is a bit circumstantial, which is not surprising given the early date.  Lawrence was the only Peelle in the immediate vicinity with only one other Peale being recorded in Virginia by that date.  One researcher claimed Robert immigrated, but no evidence supports that claim.  In addition, he purchased land from Richard Jones that adjoined Captain Tucker’s land.  This is significant as both are documented as being in Elizabeth Cittiie in 1622 when the population was very small and Lawrence had testified on Captain Tucker’s behalf in a trial in 1625.  Thus, it is believed that Robert is Lawrence’s son.

In 1656, Robert purchased property on the Western Branch of the Elizabeth River from Richard Jones.   He was likely married by this time or married shortly after.  Robert had to be at least 21 years of age at the time because that was the legal age to purchase land.  His payment for the land would be considered quite unusual today, as he paid for it with tobacco.  He was to make payments of varying amounts over several years until he had paid 8000 pounds/units.

In 1663, Robert was granted 350 acres of land in Carolina Territory.  This was “payment” for paying for passage of seven people to come to the colonies.  However, he did not keep this property.  Instead, he sold it to Dr. Thomas Rolfe, son of John Rolfe and Pacahontas.

He also sold his land on the Elizabeth River and moved to Nansemond County, Virginia.  He settled on 100 acres on Mill Run, which was part of Bennett’s Creek.  He later purchased additional land.  

Robert was the Justice of the Peace in Nansemond County, Virginia.  Some of his land was adjacent to Governor Bennett’s land.  He was listed in the governor’s will as the governor’s overseer.

When George Fox brought the Quaker beliefs to Virginia, Robert joined with the Society of Friends, along with his son Robert.  Robert witnessed several weddings of the Belson family members.  Robert’s wife’s name is unknown, but this makes me wonder if they could have been his wife’s relatives.  However, he might have just attended to the weddings since he lived nearby and the wife of one of the Belson men was one of the women whose passage to the colonies he had paid.

 

Generation 3

Robert Peelle II was born about 1657 in Elizabeth Cittie County, Virginia.  In 1678, Robert II married Sarah Jarrett, widow of Thomas Jarrett. After his marriage, he moved to the property his wife had inherited, which was about two miles from his father’s plantation (farm).

This property was near Sleepy Hole on the bank of the Nansemond River.  A ferry across the river existed from his property to Coffield Point.  It is assumed that he was the operator.  The Virginia General Assembly set the price for crossing the river at six pence per person.  However, it cost a shilling if the person had a horse. 

Robert and Sarah appeared to remain on this property the remainder of their lives.  They raised their children on the property and belonged to the Society of Friends (Quakers).

Their known children include William, Robert, Ephrain, and Joseph.

 

Generation 4

Robert Peelle III was born about 1681 to Robert Peelle II and his wife Sarah.  He grew up in a Quaker family, living on his father’s plantation at Sleepy Hole.  

Robert married Judith Edwards, about 1708.  They raised their family in Nansemond County, Virginia.  

Both of them died in 1756 with Robert dying first.  Afterward, Judith went to live with her daughter Mary in North Carolina.  She died shortly thereafter.   Judith left a will.  It is likely that Robert also had a will.  However, the Nansemond County Courthouse was burnt in the Revolutionary War and the new courthouse burnt during the Civil War.  Thus, any will would have been destroyed.

As adults, their children spread out in to several counties in North Carolina.  Their children included: Robert, Edmund, Sarah, Joseph, John, Joshua, James, Josiah, Elizabeth, John Jellary, and Mary. 

 

Generation 5

Robert Peelle IV was born in1709 in Nansemond County, Virginia.  In 1709, he  married Elizabeth Edgerton.  They were the parents to Robert, Passco, Elizabeth, Mary, and Sarah.

In 1741, Robert and Elizabeth moved to Northampton County, North Carolina where Robert purchased 500 acres of land for 40 pounds of Virginia currency.  There he was one of three trustees that built the Rich Square Monthly Meeting House where he was an elder.  He was also overseer of the Quakers in the county.

After Elizabeth died in 1749, Robert married Charity Dickinson in Perquimans County, North Carolina.  They were the parents of David, Judith, Jeremiah, Anna, Charity, Abagail “Abba,” Betsy, Rachel and Celia.

Robert, as a Quaker, could not fight in the Revolutionary War as the Society of Friends were pacifists.  They weren’t really suppose to support the war in any way.  However, Robert gave financial support to the Revolution.  I am guessing he was able to do so because of his high standing within the local Quakers.

PATRIOT: Robert is registered as a patriot by the Sons of the American Revolution, and the Daughters of the American Revolution for his financial support of the war.  

Robert died in 1782 at his home, which was about three miles from the Rich Square Meeting House.  At that time, he was a slave owner.  However, he stated in his will that all of those enslaved to him were all to “have their freedom if ever the Laws of the Land should [?] of their having that privilege.”

 

Note:Robert IV was the last Robert in my family line.  However, he was definitely not the last Robert Peelle/Peele/Peel.

 

Generation 6

Passco “Isaac” Peelle

Passco Peelle, son of Robert IV and Elizabeth (Edgerton) Peelle, was born in 1733 in Virginia (Some claim North Carolina.  However, his family did not move to North Carolina until 1741.)  The reason the name Isaac is mentioned is that his father’s early will lists him as Isaac.  It was changed to Passco in a later versions of the will.  Some people took this to mean that his name was Isaac and that he preferred Passco for some reason and that people knew him by that name.  Thus, the name was changed.  Personally, I believe the original writing of the will was simply in error.

He was born into the Quaker faith with his birth being recorded by the Rich Square Monthly Meeting.

On Dec 18, 1759, Passco signed a petition, along with other citizens of Northampton County, North Carolina, requesting the formation of Hertford County.  Then in 1779, he signed the petition to form Wayne County, North Carolina.

In 1775, Passco married Tabitha Dunigan in Dobbs County, North Carolina.  Read about the family lore about Tabitha.  Passco and Tabitha’s children included: Sarah, Nancy, Anna, Robert, Huldah, William, Charlotte “Charity”, John, Achsah, and Celia.  

Then, in 1782, Passco was granted 640 acres in Dobbs County.  He had apparently lived on the land for several years and met the requirements for purchasing the property outright.  The cost was 50 shillings per 100 acres.  As counties were created and borders changed, Passco’s property was later in Wayne County near the border with Wilson County.  A swamp in the area was named after him.  The Edward Bass family, the John King family, and the  William Newsom family were close neighbors.  The description of his property would make your head spin.  It was defined by a huckleberry tree, red oak trees, pine trees, and a random stake in the ground.

Passco died in 1807.

Read more about Passco Peelle.

 

Judith Peelle

Judith Peelle was born in 1754 in Wayne County, North Carolina.

Judith is also an ancestor in the same generation as Passco.  She is his half-sister as she is the daughter of Robert IV and Charity Dickinson.  One of her descendants married one of Passco’s descendants.  

In this family line, the Peelle name ends with Judith as she married Josiah Cox in 1777 at the Rich Square Monthly Meeting.  Therefore, her children all have the surname Cox.

 

Generation 7

William Peelle was born January 30, 1786 in North Carolina.

William married Sarah “Sally” Cox in 1808 in North Carolina.  Sally was the daughter of Josiah Cox and Judith Peelle.  Thus, they were half-first cousins.  

Around Christmas 1820, William moved from Wayne County, North Carolina to Wayne County, Indiana.  His brother John and sisters  Achsah and Anna also moved to Indiana with John being the first to move.

William and Sally’s youngest children are John Cox, William Adams, and Passco Peelle.  Since John, the oldest of the three, was born in 1817 and his parents married in 1808, it seems likely that there were older children.  The 1830 census seems to support this theory as it lists a male child between 5 and 9 (Passco), two males 10 to 14 (John and William), a male 15 to 19 (Unknown) and a female 10 to 14 (Unknown).  This would imply that there were two additional children.  Even then it would seem that they might have had additional children who might have already left the household.  

Two possible children are Tabitha who was born in 1810 and died in 1825 in Wayne County, Indiana.  Another was Robert Peelle who was born in 1814 and died in 1840 in Wayne County, Indiana.

In 1825, William acquired the SE 1/4 of Section 24 Range 014E in township 018n.

For 20 years, William was Justice of the Peace in New Garden Township, Wayne County, Indiana.

Sally died in 1839 or 1840 of bilious fever (possibly something similar to malaria).  William died about twenty years later of dropsy (a build up of fluids in the body often from congestive heart failure or kidney disease).

 

Passco Peelle

Generation 8

Passco Peelle is the son of William and Sally (Cox) Peelle.  He was born September 15, 1822 in Indiana.

On September 4, 1845, Passco married Martha Johnson in Wayne County, Indiana.  They became the parents of Rachel, Evaline, Carolina, Elzena “Jennie,” William Johnson, Sarah Ann “Sallie,” Emaline D. “Lillie,” and Mossie Lea.

At some point, the family moved across the county line to Randolph County, Indiana.  The family lived near Lynn, Indiana.  Passco owned 159.5 acres, as a half-acre of the 160-acre quarter section was used for school grounds

Over the winter of 1878-1879, Passco and Martha, along with their youngest children, made a big move, leaving Indiana for Bourbon County, Kansas.  In Kansas, they first lived north of Hiattville near where the Scofield School once stood. 

The family later moved to Hiattville.  After a few years, they moved west of Hiattville to where Don and Kay Davis later lived.  Then, they moved back to their original Kansas home.  It is assumed that the person buying it had failed to continue payments.  After this they moved to the Fish Farm, which locals today will know as Dewey and Jackie McCracken’s farm.  There were a couple of temporary moves in between, but these are the most significant.  However, once they were in Kansas, they never lived more than approximately four to five miles from Hiattville.

Passco and Martha both lived to be in their mid-80s, dying in 1908 and 1912, respectively. 

 

 

William Johnson Peelle

Generation 9

William Johnson Peelle was born January 1, 1856 in Randolph or Wayne County, Indiana to Passco and Martha (Johnson) Peelle.  He was their fifth child of eight and their only son.

As a young man, he worked doing farming, carpentry, and any other jobs that family and neighbors needed to have done.  However, he also took an interest in local affairs including legal matters.  

When the family moved to Kansas, William J. stayed behind in Indiana to close out matters there.  He oversaw the family’s goods being placed on the train for the move, sold some remaining items, and even sold his horse.

He made the trip to Kansas via train.  Read about the move from Illinois to Kansas.

In Kansas, he worked as a carpenter and a farmer.  He lived with his parents (or they lived with him) for the remainder of his life except when newly married and living in Hiattville.  It appears at that time that his parents lived adjacent to his home.  Thus, they were never far away.

Each of the homes was quite crowded.  After he married Matilda Jury in 1892, there were four in the household.  Then William J. and Matilda’s children came along – Lydia, Nellie, and Passco “Pat.”  I don’t know all of the houses, but I do know the last one that they lived in.  It was the same house that my dad grew up in and where his brother Dewey McCracken later lived. 

The house had three bedrooms with one of them being quite small.  It seems likely that Passco and Martha slept downstairs as they were elderly by the time they moved to that property.  William J & Matilda would have gotten one of the upstairs bedrooms and the girls the other.  I believe I heard that Pat had to sleep in the loft/hallway upstairs.

William J. was only 55 when he had a stroke and died while on his way home from Hiattville with a load of lumber. 

Read more about William J Peelle’s life as a farmer and a carpenter. 

 

Nellie with her horse Beauty

Generation 10

Nellie Peelle, whose name was really Eleanor although her name was never officially recorded as such, was the second child of William J. and Matilda (Jury) Peelle.

She was the end of the line for the Peelle name in my family line, as she married Joseph Andrew McCracken on March 4, 1914.  Her name change actually ended the Peelle family name for the descendants of Passco and Martha (Johnson) Peelle’s entire family line as grandma’s father was the only boy in the family and her brother Passco “Pat” Peelle’s only son died as a child.

 

 

My Connection

Although the name Peelle/Peele/Peel faded from my family line with my grandmother’s generation, I am the 12th generation of this family in America.  Other family lines may not have the same name in my line for so many generations, but in many cases I am many, many generations American.  With so many generations in America, I find it difficult to identify as anything other than an American.  I recognize my English, Scottish, and other roots (all European), but I am an American through and through.

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